Clear all obstacles in life

Life is full of obstacles. In the family, in the working places, we bound to face a lot of obstacles.
Many people will feel down or worries when obstacles come. If we can not clear these obstacles, we will feel depressed and find that life is miserable.
How to clear all these obstacles, yes, we can do it.
Firstly, we must have the right mindset in the first place. What are the right mindset? My thinking is as follow for your reference.
1. Do not hurt anybody. Why? because of not hurting any human things, we can feel peaceful in our heart. If we can extend the love to non-human being like animals willingly, we will be blessed beyond our imagination.
2. Tolerance-when we hear somebody talking bad about us, take it easy.
3.............many more.
What is your view?

Encourage each other

My colleague Mr. Raghbir have changed a lot since he practiced Yoga. Before that he was a very hot-temped person, he liked to argue with people. He was very arrogant and always thought that he was always right. Frankly speaking, nobody liked him because of his character.
One day one of his colleague advised him to learn yoga to better manage the life. He then attended the yoga talk and became the member.
I am happy to see him now a different person. Yesterday he told me that he wanted to have zero anger.
Of course this is not that easy to have zero anger but I believe that he can gradually reduce it. For me, I encourage him and share with my knowledge to him selflessly. Through sharing, I myself also have much improvement on many area.
In this world, there is so many ways to upgrade ourselves. The goal of all faiths is almost the same. Life will be better if we know how to manage our emotion. Let's apply our wisdom in our daily life. Discard all the wrong and bad thought from today, then we can be ready happy. Time to wake up now because we have no much time left in this world. If we do not want to do good deeds now, then we are ready wasting time in this world.
What is your view?

2012 end of the world?

Recently, many people talk about the end of the world is in the year of 2012. For me, I think it is unlikely, do you know why?
This was the prediction from one particular tribe. According to their calender year 2012 is the final year of their calender. That means that there is no calender for them after that year because the world ended.
But it is just the prediction from ancient time. It is unlikely unless many people doing many evil acts.
Actually the solution is rather simple. I, you, he , she and each individual just do many good deeds, do not do bad deeds like killing, stealing, improper sex, telling lies, taking drugs or all other degrading activities, get rid of greed, hatred, etc. Then we have many more years to live.
Mindset decide our destiny in this earth. If people doing good deeds, then the positive waves can dilute the negative waves.
But if the negative waves ( many people doing bad deeds ) more than positive waves, then we all have to say bye bye to each others.
But I believe the world will carry on because there is still many good people in this world.
Do you want to do many good deeds or you want to do evil acts, this is your choice. If everybody want to do good deeds seriously, then we will be blessed for sure.
Any view from you? Do you still believe year 2012 end of the world?

Singapore national day 2010

Wow, time is running very fast, Singapore national day is coming soon on 9-8-2010, this is the 45Th anniversary.
These few weeks, I can see many planes flying on the sky. Many residents are putting national flags to celebrate.
Looking back, the small island went through so many struggles yet we still can survive. This is because of the hard work of both government and all residents in Singapore. In year 1965, we were separated from Malaysia, at that time many countries doubted whether Singapore could survive or not. The then prime minister said:" We will survive."
The undaunted mindset of the leaders and the diligence of residents are the main factor why Singapore can survive until now.
Although Singapore has no natural resources but we have manpower resources. Singapore is now the corruption free country. We always take risks and try new things and go globally with high confidence.
I appreciate all these and would like to contribute to my country. I just do my part doing my job properly.

Habitual problems

Yesterday I took MRT ( Train )home. I saw " reminders" inside the train as follow:
" It's not cool to bully. It's not cool to litter."
" Got fined. Gt CWO ( Corrective work order to clean up some designated places ) too. Now I'm a litterbug fool." " Do the right thing. Let's bin it."
Wow, you see! this is the good reminders from the enforcement body National Environment Agency.
My friends, with so many reminders, why enforcement officers still can manage to catch so many people littering?
I think this is the habitual problem.
If we all have right mindset, we should not litter. So, we wouldn't be fined ( few hundred dollars).
Remember few hundred dollars can be very big amount for poor families here.
So, we should do all the good things in life.
Do you agree?

Great inspiration

When I hear the news that Singapore's Table Tennis teams ( Feng Tianwei, Wang Yuegu and Sun Bei Bei ) beat world No 1 China 3-1 in the World Team Table Tennis Championships, I was overjoyed.
As you know China Table Tennis women team are always very strong that no other teams in the world can beat them for 19 year.
But Singapore women's team, ranked No 2 in the world finally beat them. Singapore had failed many times before that, for example they lost in the 2008 final and the Olympic final to the Chinese. Because of undaunted fighting spirits, Singapore finally become champion.
Just now I go to view the matches on Youtube, I can see how confident Singapore team.
Singapore's world No 2 Feng Tianwei, always want to be world no.1, her dream finally come true.
After the victory, the team manager said:" A lot of times, when we met them in the finals we lost 3-0, 3-1. But we kept telling them (Singapore players) that one day, we should be able to beat them....So, during the training, we kept drilling this into them - to have this mindset that we're able to beat them, because we felt that without Zhang Yining, it's one of the best chance to win them...A lot of times, some of them, when they meet China players, they tend to feel that there's a gap between them. If you watch today's match, you can see that Tianwei was even trailing in the first match. She was fighting for every point...That makes a difference, because....(in) Tianwei, you see the fighting spirit, and when she won the match, it really gave a lot of confidence to Yuegu going into the second match. She has also never beaten that China girl before..So I think that makes a lot of difference, because suddenly, they felt that, hey, the past doesn't count, that although we have lost so many, many matches, it's like a fresh start."
This successful story telling us that we can be success if we do our very best. How about get rid of our bad habits? The answer is we can if we want.

Cultivation is very very important

My young brother visited my home during the lunar new year eve. He has four kids age between 13 years old to 5 years old. Out of these four kids, the 5 years old son makes him headache. It is because this kid is very playful most of the time. This 5 years kid is studying in kindergarten. The principal of the kindergarten told my younger brother that the kid was so naughty and the school has lost the patience and hope. The Principal said that this 5 years old kid always disturb other kids like kicking, extending his legs while kids walking. The principal advised my younger brother to send this naughty boy to other kindergarten.
Hearing this, I told him that I might be able to coach him. These two days, my younger brother sent his naughty kid to my home, I taught him for three hour each day.
How to teach this 5 years old kid? I revised the student guide and do some planning work and I hope I can instill some good values to the child. My training was as follows:
The first day, I took out the student guide and we recited the first chapter together. After that I told him the ancient filial story about the child who was very taken care of the mother. I asked questions related to the story and repeated the questions again and again. My intention is to let him how the handiwork of the parents and we had to be the good kids so as not to let parents worry.
After that, I let him saw the DVD, the same story and again asked him the similar question. My intention is to strengthen his understanding on the good values.
The second day, I asked him many questions and let him answered. I corrected his answer if he had answered wrongly.
My questions to this 5 years old kid are as follow:
1. Do your father busy in work everyday?
2. Do your father feel tired after work? Why he is so tired?
3. What type of children are considered good kids?
4. While talking, small kids should talk loudly, softly or totally soundless?
5. Why we should not fighting?
and many other questions.
During the coaching, if the kid was naughty, I quickly wrote down his faults and told him immediately.
Surprisingly, I found the kid actually was so understanding. With my patience, I strongly believe he will definitely become the good boy.
My friend, if we can cultivate him at this age, he will be able to lead the healthier life later.

Joyful life

Helping others without thinking ourselves is the truly joyful thing in our life.
Everyday we should appreciate all people surround us whether they are good people or bad people.
If we see people quarreling, we immediately examine ourselves whether we still angry or full of hatred or not. We constantly change ourselves if we have any.
If we read newspaper about people committed suicide because of gaming. We immediately examine ourselves whether we are still greedy or have any gaming habits. We change it if any.
If people telling us that we're doing the good job. We immediately examine ourselves whether we're ready doing the good job. If not, we have to work even harder.
We appreciate everybody whether they are bad or not. We do our best to advise people who had dome something no right. We encourage those who have good habits, hope that they continue the good habits.
We do my best to put down our selfishness. We want to have harmony not only ourselves but others. We want to have harmony with all living things, nature.
All these make us joyful most of the time.
What do you think about the above-mentioned? Is it ready good for you?

Protect our eyes

Today, I am going to tell you something about the importance of protecting your eyes. If we know how to protect our eyes, we will be blessed. Believe me, this is for your own good.
My friends, our brain are incredible. Please imagine this, If you see the word " lion ", immediately the lion image will be appeared on your mind, am I right?
At the same time, all information about lion are appearing on your mind immediately.
Why I am telling you this? I want to let you know just a word " lion " can trigger your memories about lion almost immediately.
So, how about your eyes seeing some tempting photo/ video? I can tell your that all the information, good and bad,ugly and evil things related to that photo or video will immediately appear on your mind.
My friends, during the time you seeing or after seeing, you know very well that your mind are working like the wild fire, all the wild thought will appear in your mind.
This memories will be kept inside your brain forever and become your " force ".
This force will likely to lead you to dangerous zone. How many people able to not affected by this? Almost impossible unless you have very positive force. If not, even you see the sign " Danger, keep out ", you mind just don't bother. Then you will be the slave of desires. Our mind are working something like that.
So, that is why some wise people don't see such photos, bad video, bad magazines,etc.
I hope all of you know how to protect your eyes properly.
You know very well that I am saying that because I love all of you.

Do you always pass the test?

All of you are blogger or readers and I believe some of you always pass the test, examination from primary school until university. Some of you had failed one subject or more subjects during your schooling years.
Why made you fail the subject? either you never study, can't understand,etc. But teachers surely gave your the scheduled date for test or examination. So, we all had ample time to prepare. With concentration and ample time to prepare, we could pass the test.
My friends, in our daily life especially now we are all adults. There are many tests for us at any time. This means we do not know the scheduled date/time for test.
Do you pass the following tests daily?
1. Anger management test.
2. Free from greed test.
3. Free from temptations test.
4. Moral test.
My friends, if we never prepare, more likely we will fail the above tests. If you want to live happily, we have to pass this tests daily?
What is your view?

Great shame of all

Since we were born, our parents have taken care us unconditionally. If our parents never took care of us, we surely die. Just for this one particular reason , we can say that it is the great shame not to reply their kindness. We can not take it lightly because if we can not do that, we ready not human and we are worse than beast.
Filial to parents is what every son/daughter " must do ", there is no bargain or excuses on that for whatever reasons.
Please establish the right mindset-sincerely and unconditionally love your parents. This is not just giving some money to our parents but giving them warmth. For examples, spend times to talk to them, washing their legs, etc, etc. you should know what are their like, you should full fill their wishes. The point is to make our parents smile. Making them smiling always is what we must do.

Do not harm animals

My friend told me that he is now no longer harming animals. Why made him doing this is because he had watched the film " Why we should not eat animals? "
We can see how cruel human beings treating animals.
1. Killing shark-Fishermen use the sharp knife to cut the shark fan. After that, they put back the injured shark to the sea. The shark will surely suffer many hour before death.
2. Killing sea lion-The hunter use the hard stick to beat the sea lion. After the sea lion is motionless, the hunter quickly cut the sex organ. After that, the hunter throw the sea lion to the icy water. Wow, can you imagine how suffering these sea lions have to endure before death?
3. Killing whale-use the big net or using canon to kill the whale. Let the whale drowning until death.
4. Killing monkey-cut away the top of head and eat the living brain. The monkey keep on screaming.
We can see how cruel human beings. All these people with no compassionate heart are the pitiful people, why?
They will surely get the cruel treatment somewhere sometimes. Why? The law of nature will not spare them, these killers will get the fair treatment and have the chance to experience the pain or great sufferings one day because they ask for it.

Good films actress

Do you like to be the actor or actress? Many people would like to be actors or actress because they want fame, money, etc.
But what type of roles they are acting?
Sadly to say, these actors or actress performing lots of violent act, sex and many unhealthy scenes.
Do these films helping audiences building up positive mindset? The answer is no. They are doing bit by bit to pollute people' mind especially those teenagers will badly affected. All these films only lead people to the path of evil.
There is the actress made up her mind not to act all these roles any more.
What made her change her mind?
This was because she had attended the talk about traditional moral values. She now already the very good woman. She had changed her fate.
My friends, if you want to be actor/actress, please do not act those roles that can influence or spoil people' mindset. You can act those roles that can lead people to the path of brightness. Please do not pull others to the hell.

Guide them, please

There was the real story. Mr. A had committed some serious crime and was convicted in the court. Mr. A was given with death sentence.
Prison officer asked Mr. A :" Do you have any appeal or request?"
Mr.A said:" I want to see my mother."
When the mother came to the prison, Mr.A talked to the mother:" I want to eat your breast." Wow, the mother ready opened the shirt and Mr. A came near to the breast and bite her nipple until it dropped.
Mr.A said:" Whatever I want, you always give me. Now, I am about to die and you still doing that, why you never teach me moral values at all since I was born?"
What is your view?

Be mindful of temptations

Student guide say:" When you see others do wrong, immediately reflect upon yourself. If you have made the same mistake, correct it. If not, be extra cautious not to make the same mistake.
My thought for today.
If you have the husband/wife, love her wholeheartedly. Do not think of having affairs with other ladies. Once the affair is exposed somehow, miseries will follow and it will not only affect yourself badly and whole family as well.
Because it will create many problems for you, your family in the present and future.
1. If you do that, then you have lost the loyalty towards your husband/wife completely.
If you do that, then you are not the moral person anymore and you worries will come one day and you will meet miseries any moment.
2. Affecting your children badly
Because of your bad deeds, your children will not respect you anymore because you have shown very bad examples and they might follow your footsteps in the future.
3. Divorce is the outcome
When this happen, your kids will become problem children sooner or later. Their unhealthy mindset will lead to many society problems.
4. Shameful to the whole family including parents
So, do not easily fall to the trap of temptations and lust. I know this is very difficult for some people with no strong moral background but you have to be mindful at all times.
Note: In the century, human beings have become worse, they just like to chase about bodily excitement and they have forgotten all the moral values. Some are just follow one or two moral values but addicted on the very sinful activities that they think that were alright. I have to say that those who do too many bad deeds will be regretful one day. They might meet with accidents, miseries,etc. If you want to have luck, the only way is doing good deeds.

Harmony starts from me

If you want to have truly peaceful life, then we should ponder these few things?
Do you always angry why people treating you badly?
Do you always dislike people most of the time?
Do you always worry many things even trivial things?
Do you always thinking of having lots of money but using immoral ways?
Do you always want to show off that you have much money, branded cars, branded clothes?
Do you always jealous about others better than you?
Do you always want to take revenge if people treat you badly?
Do you always drink beers, going home in late night?
Do you always thinking having more lovers are the beautiful things in life?
Do you always chasing all types of enjoyment like going to night clubs?
Do you always neglect your parents, husband/wife, children and family?
My friends, having peaceful life can only be achieved if we have harmony within ourselves.
Harmony starts from me.
Let's ponder about all these for a while.
Do you have the peaceful life?

Good media director

Mr.Lee is the good media director, he was very worried because media rarely produce good programs that can lead people to the path of brightness but the opposite. Why? It was because the media producers only concern about size of the audiences. The producers just want to attract more advertiser. They concern only profits but they have already cross over the minimum moral standard. Mr.Lee said that there was only one TV station purely provide good programs in China.
In order to spread the goodness, he started the family program called " Parents under the sky " in year 2004. He wanted to promote " filial " because filial is the root of morals that can prevent people going to the wrong ways. Many teenagers are influenced by bad or tempting programs that prevalent in most of the countries.
Surprising the program " parents under the sky " attracted so many audiences that he never expected. His original plan was targeted to those ages between 40 years old to 60 years old. But he had received so many letters from the teenagers and young people. They expressed the appreciation that these type of programme ready touching them. Many people started to take care and love their parents after viewing these type of program.
This was indeed the positive development since then.
In March 2007, the government published the whole page-promoting traditional good value, take care of parents on People daily. This was one of the breakthrough in government policies.
My friends, I personally had seen these programs and found that there were so many touching scene and I would like to share the stories in my future posts.