Friday, May 10, 2013

止语的好处

黄忠昌居士:止语的好处
    1真正做到「善护口业,不讥他过」,使自己能尽最大的努力修好十善业,积累往生的福德资粮。同时可以防止辛苦修积来的一点福报从说话之中流失掉,也可避免因口过而招来的麻烦和灾祸,在较大的程度上断绝了菩提道上的业因业缘。

   2能够避免犯破六和敬,破坏正法道场的重罪。谚 语有谓「人平不语,水平不流」,易经上也说「吉人寡语」。凡夫喜欢杂心闲话,其实是由于内心里贪瞋痴慢的烦恼习气太重,不说话就难受,总要找话题来消遣消 遣,太喜欢说话的人确实是心不在道。而且可以说明他几乎还没有觉悟,还没有真正生起了生死出三界之心。如果是真正的修道人,心里常存惭愧,一定会珍惜光 阴,把精力用在听经、讲经、看书、念佛、拜佛。凡夫说出来的话既然是由烦恼习气所引发,就难免对他人的害处远远大于好处,而且又缺乏真诚恭敬心。言谈当中 不知不觉就会误导人、伤害人,于是由许多的小磨擦而演变成大磨擦,终于破坏了彼此之间的和谐,于是就在犯了破六和敬的罪过,而自己往往还不知不觉。既然破 了六和敬,当然也破坏了正法道场,干扰了他人的正常修学,制造了恶劣的修学气氛,这个罪过当然不轻。

   3能够提升自己的忍辱功夫。凡 夫烦恼习气很重,遇到不称心如意的事情就会发牢骚,看人不顺眼就想去纠正人、批评人。譬如见人说话太大声,就想去制止他,见人关门动作粗鲁,发出巨大的声 响,又想去纠正他,见人小便后不冲水,就想去批评他。止语就可以避免这些过失,逼着自己样样都要忍耐,克服自己的烦恼习气,慢慢地就会做到「不见他人过, 只见自己过」,逐渐就会懂得「境缘无好丑,好丑在人心」,心渐渐不再被外境所转了。
   4能够提升自己的诚敬心,能够得到佛菩萨更大的加持。诚敬心多一分则多消一分罪,多增一分福慧,多得佛菩萨的一分加持。止语是佛菩萨之所欢喜,是依教奉行的表现,比起不修止语,对佛法、对护法、对众生、对道业的诚敬心是大大地提升了许多。

   5能够提升自己的警觉心。因为止语,受到别人的干扰会比较小,于是就有更多的精神照顾自己的起心动念,烦恼习气生起之时能比较迅速地察觉,并且令其息灭,久而久之,烦恼习气就会被控制住。同时也常常比较容易觉察出自己的毛病和过失,也能较快地改正过来。

    6能够比较有效地保护自己的清净心。不跟人说话时间久了,人家也不会找自己说话,不用常常应付人,受到的影响就小,就有更多的时间听经、读经、看书,凡事不闻不问,心里没有忧虑牵挂,心常能保持空灵,心就愈来愈清净,心愈清净就愈有智慧。

    7能够更好地学习随缘度日。因为止语,人不得不老实,不得不放下种种的要求和意见,凡事合自己的意思很好,不合自己的意思也很好,有也好,没有也好,得也好,失也好,渐渐地就学会了随缘度日,同时也不断学习在一切顺逆善恶境缘中保持心平气和,久而久之,烦恼就能伏住了。


    8能够放下种种恩怨。与 人多说,谈得投机则生感情,谈得不投机则免不了产生磨擦,就很容易与人结下怨仇,这些恩怨就会对往生造成很大的障碍。常常找人说话,有时无意中也会得罪 人,如果特别喜欢和某人说话,另一个人也许会想怎么就不跟我说话,是不是看不起我,所以也产生让人生烦恼的过失。同时也使自己失去了平等心,不能一视同 仁,平等对待一切人。

    9能够增长谦卑、恭敬的心。因为不再发表意见了,人家也不会再问您这样那样的问题,贡高我慢、自以为是的烦恼习气渐渐就会淡了下来,人人都不再对您多加关心,时间久了,就会感到自己是微不足道之人,谦卑、恭敬的心不知不觉也渐渐地增长起来了。

    10不提供机会让人与自己谈话,也减少了别人造业的机会,同时也能防止有人烦恼起现行而找借口来障碍自己的正常修学。

    11止语其实是在享清福。止语久了的人,会觉得说话是很麻烦、很辛苦的事,请他说话他会感到很不愿意,也很不自然。

Thursday, May 9, 2013

黄忠昌居士求生净土

 今天发给诸位有一份黄忠昌居士求生净土的发愿文,后面有他的简单介绍。这个人就是听我讲经,他受了很大的感动,决定要求生净土。听说这些年灾难很多,他自己说过,他不想受这个灾难,也不愿意看到这个灾难,希望在灾难未发生之前他就能到极乐世界,所以他闭关,闭关三年念佛。
   他是止语不说话,就是一句佛号念到底,一天听六个小时《无量寿经》,《无量寿经》总共听了五遍,从头到尾听过五遍,一句佛号不中断,二年十个月,前几天 往生的,预知时至,瑞相非常好,火化之后有舍利、有舍利花。我让他们把它捡出来,做一个塔来供养。他发的心是给我们念佛人做一个示范,看看三年是不是真的 能成就,果然成就。
   今天他母亲还给我打个电话,非常欢喜。本来人家认为他母亲好像会难受受不了,没想到母亲很欢喜,她说她这个小孩度了她自己,现在对念佛有信心,儿子做出 榜样出来。我说他不但度他的母亲,他会度很多人。所以这份东西我们把它印出来供养大家做参考,同时这篇东西,他这个发愿文,把它放在网路上流传,让大家都 能看得到。这是真的,这个才叫真正解决问题。
   如果你真正念到功夫成片,他是功夫成片往生的,念到功夫成片可不可以不走?可以,到这时候这是生死自在,但是大部分人他会走,不走是为什么?不走就是他 跟这个世间还有缘,就是他来弘法讲经劝人念佛人家相信他,他有这个缘。有这个缘,多带几个人去,没有这个缘,自己先去,去了再来,生死自在!这就问题解决 了。所以对这个世间决定没有留恋,住这个世间无非是帮助一些有缘人,能信、能理解,真正肯干的,这一生决定成就。
   所以一个道场的兴旺,古大德教导我们,这个道场得禅定的人多,开悟的人多,证果的人多,往生的人多,这道场兴旺!不是人多,人再多一个都没有成就,这个 道场不是兴旺道场。兴旺道场要有四种人,得禅定的,这是最低的等级,第二个是开悟,第三个是证果,最殊胜的是往生。诸位要晓得,往生就作佛了,比那个开 悟、证果高得多!证果,证个阿罗汉、证个菩萨,哪有往生极乐世界殊胜?不能比!所以往生是第一殊胜。
   怎样才能往生?你看看人家这个发愿就晓得,没有别的,放下,这个也要那个也要,那就很糟糕,你就去不了。彻底放下,心里面毫无牵挂,就是一句佛号,你看 他生病,这两年多中也生过病,生病的时候他断食,这是佛教给出家人的方法,不看医生也不吃药,断食,只喝水,断食,慢慢的调养,他自然就好了,他用这个方 法,很有效。所以你看他的愿文,非常坚定,一丝毫疑惑都没有。
   往生的前一天,他托梦给一个同修,告诉他,就是第二天,往生的时间在下午五点之前。往生之前,那时候我们正好讲经,我们讲经是四点半开始,他要到香港来 感谢,来谢谢法师,到这边来,然后就走了。你看,四点五十分就走了,五点钟之前,预知时至。是真的不是假的,三、四天之前的事情。(净空法师·答香港参学 同修之三十七 2006/6/16)




   黄忠昌居士,三十八岁,念佛二年十个月,预知时至,往生佛国,瑞相希有。足为念佛作证转轮。愿我同修增坚信愿,努力效法,一门深入,三年薰习,同生净土。

净空614


   黄 忠昌居士,1968年出生于广东省惠州。2001年于深圳信德图书馆成立时,至道场做义工。2003年中秋,发心止语念佛,立志为大众作念佛三年决定往生 的典范。精进好学,每天念佛十一小时,专听老法师讲《无量寿经》六小时,从无间断。全经反复听了五次。黄居士修行最大的长处是能每天认真忏悔、反省改过, 听经闻法后即彻底放下,依教奉行。自发心精进念佛起,生病发烧,即断绝饮食,一心念佛,从不吃药,安然度过。
    2006年6月8黄居士晚上发烧,不仅拒绝医药,一反常态的,连滴水也不沾。6月9上午,图书馆负责人征得黄居士本人同意,送医治疗。检查结果是肺部严重感染,有生命危险。医生说,黄居士从进医院开始,神智始终清楚,口中不停念着阿弥陀佛,从无间断。
     6月8日晚上,图书馆负责人曾于梦中见到一男子要走,请为他安排时间,希望不超过9日下午五点。因他第一站要到香港,在老法师讲经时谢恩。果然,黄居士于6月9日下午4时50分往生。足以证明古大德于往生传记所记载,真信切愿,三年念佛决定往生之语,真实不虚。


    信德图书馆成立于2001年至今,黄忠昌居士已是第三位往生西方的典范。
    第 一位,是七十五岁的吴振峰居士,也是预知时至。往生前三个月,请求道场负责人全权帮忙处理后事。特别嘱咐,务必于往生二十四小时以后,才能告知居住在邻近 的两个女儿。老居士往生当天的上午,将银行所有存款领出,供养道场。请求负责人七天后帮他办一场三时系念法会。往生当天下午,至道场向义工一一道别。晚上 即于家中吉祥卧安详往生。200474日<农历517日>往生
    第 二位于图书馆往生的,是五十九岁的吴粉玲居士,患有脑瘤。往生二十天前,请求道场负责人让她的小儿子至道场做义工,并请道场帮忙办理后事。之后,即请假回 家。往生当天前二十分钟,一一打电话向道友告别,并嘱咐家人全力配合道场为她处理后事。这天,吴居士上洗手间时,觉得有些头晕,不慎跌倒,头撞了墙,出现 像拳头大的黑紫色的肿包。家人立刻打电话给道场,请求为吴老居士助念。老居士随着大众的佛号,微笑往生。往生后半小时,头上的包即消失了。
    2005年2月26<农历1月18>往生
    以上三位预知时至往生西方的好榜样,都是每日六小时专听《无量寿经》,十一小时精进念佛,精进不懈。黄忠昌与吴振峰居士更是止语用功,绝无闲岔。蕅益大师所云:得生与否,全在信愿之有无。品位高下,决定于功夫之浅深。真信切愿,一句佛号可抵悠悠忽忽十万声都不止。《弥陀经》中所说念佛一日至七日,确实是佛的真实语,愿我同伦共勉之。




申 请书
   尊 敬的馆长:您好!今天上午听了您的一番话,真是心急如焚,真的想不睡觉、不吃饭地干啊!我还敢说什么话、还敢起什么念头吗?灾难来得这么快,只恨自己业障 深重,从小就不懂得尊敬父母、师长、长辈,没有福报接受良好的教育。最近看《玉历宝钞》真是越看越惊恐,众生想离开三恶道真是万般艰难!以前我还以为自己 业障比较轻,一年半下来功夫还没能成片,心里的感受无法形容!非常感激馆长和这么多这么好的义工护持!我只希望真的如您所说,千万不要在佛菩萨脸上抹黑! 谢谢您的恩德!
申请人 黄忠昌 合十顶礼2005422

申 请书
    尊敬的馆长:您好!阿弥陀佛!非常非常抱歉!今天上午心里确实太着急了,话都不想多说了,只想从此不停地念佛!所以那个申请书写得太简短了,也并没有把申请的意思表达出来。念了一个下午的佛,心里总算有点沉着而明朗了,所以觉得有必要重新补写申请书,敬请馆长多多谅解!
    很感谢馆长透露了那个惊人的消息,空前的翻天覆地的大灾难将在二00七年爆发。听到这个消息我真的心急如焚,因为我深深相信这一生不能往生必定是无量劫又无量劫地轮转。不要说三恶道的苦难我不想遭遇,就是人道的痛苦我也不愿意承受,也不愿意目睹!
     下 午念佛,平时感到舒畅悦耳的佛号,今天竟然变得那么慢,真的像老牛拉破车一般,这使我明白到为什么一年半下来功夫不能成片的原因,就是因为求生西方极乐世 界的愿心并没有达到真正恳切的程度,所以常常还会轻忽养识,随顺妄想杂念。凡夫就是如此,不是真正火烧眉头就不会真正打起十二分精神拼命地干。虽然平时并 不算松懈懒散,但是心里面暗暗地总觉得还有时光,所以这就糟了。今天听您这么一说,我深深相信这次的灾难必定是空前的大灾难。从二00一年起我几乎每天观 察天气,怎么几乎天天都是白雾茫茫的,这是三十多年来所未见过的现象。而且能明白到自从科技发达之后,人类造作的罪业,短短几十年就远远超过古时候的几千 年,我真的不忍目睹这场灾难的降临。看到小孩子们不懂得念佛求生净土,心里真为他们难过啊!我现在的心情就像赶乘最后一班车的那种心情。明天一早,我要在 佛前恭敬郑重地发愿,从今以后,中午不睡觉,晚上那一餐彻底断绝,喜欢看的书也彻底放下了,一定要分秒必争拼命,赶在二00七年之前功夫成就,预知时至, 希望能在三十三楼顺利往生。
    这 使我想起曾经看过的一张往生的光碟,也许馆长您也看过,那是老法师的弟子悟正师的弟弟陈俊彦,三十一岁那年突然得了癌症,医生断定他只有六个月的时间,于 是他彻底放下万缘,每天都像在闭关一样勇猛精进地念佛,果然因祸得福成就了。我虽不敢肯定自己的善根福德因缘能如同他一样,但是我比他多念了好几年的佛, 多听了几年的经,有底子啊!而且往生的愿心也能如他一般,所以我还是觉得自己有那么一线希望。我深深希望馆长能成全我的愿望,我不敢像别人那样要求终生在 本馆念佛,但是希望至少能念到二00七年之前,恳请馆长同意和支持!
    在 这段时间,因为恳切求生净土,勇猛精进,相信必定有种种魔障现前,我深深希望自己能谨记老法师的教诲,不管逆境顺境、善缘恶缘,都以平常心对待,都能看成 是道业成就的增上缘。如果得了病,不管大病小病,一律不吃药不看医生!一定要拿出坚强的意志,以坦然的心情面对种种魔障,因为已完全没有退缩的余地了!自 从学佛以来我就常向人说,我最怕的就是壮志未酬身先死,这一天真的来了,我是多么由衷地羡慕诸佛菩萨以无尽的慈悲和无量的善巧方便普度虚空法界无量无边苦 难众生破迷开悟,离苦得乐,圆成佛道!而这个愿心始终都没有退减啊!
    最后再次由衷地感激馆长、法师和各位义工说不尽的恩德!
申请人 黄忠昌 合十顶礼  2005422

◎    黄居士已于200669(农历517)下午450分预知时至往生。




黄忠昌求生净土发愿文
   弟子至心恳切祈求佛陀慈悲威神加持:
   弟子至心恳切希望起心动念、言语造作能远离一切罪恶,不容毫分不善夹杂。
   愿能不见世间过,不被外境所转。
   愿能时时处处正念现前。
   愿能认真努力念佛,愿能唤醒自性本具之真诚、清净、平等、正觉、慈悲之性德。
   愿能努力知过改过,看破放下,积功累德,但求善根福德智慧增长,功夫早日成片。
   弟子至心忏悔无始以来所造作的一切罪业,业重福轻,障深慧浅。然而弟子真心切愿脱离六道轮回,求生西方极乐世界,愿能成就无上圆满菩提。
    弟子愿为正法久住世间,愿为一切众生早日破迷开悟,离苦得乐,圆成佛道而认真努力修行。
    愿能努力克服烦恼习气,放下妄想杂念。愿能不见世间过,不被外境所转。起心动念、言语造作能远离一切罪恶,不容毫分不善夹杂。
    愿能努力知过改过,看破放下,积功累德。
    愿能认真努力念佛,愿能唤醒自性本具之真诚、清净、平等、正觉、慈悲之性德。
    愿能善根福德智慧增长,早日功夫成片。
    愿佛慈悲护念,威神加持。
——转载自净空法师专集网站


黄忠昌居士:止语的好处


    1真正做到「善护口业,不讥他过」,使自己能尽最大的努力修好十善业,积累往生的福德资粮。同时可以防止辛苦修积来的一点福报从说话之中流失掉,也可避免因口过而招来的麻烦和灾祸,在较大的程度上断绝了菩提道上的业因业缘。

   2能够避免犯破六和敬,破坏正法道场的重罪。谚 语有谓「人平不语,水平不流」,易经上也说「吉人寡语」。凡夫喜欢杂心闲话,其实是由于内心里贪瞋痴慢的烦恼习气太重,不说话就难受,总要找话题来消遣消 遣,太喜欢说话的人确实是心不在道。而且可以说明他几乎还没有觉悟,还没有真正生起了生死出三界之心。如果是真正的修道人,心里常存惭愧,一定会珍惜光 阴,把精力用在听经、讲经、看书、念佛、拜佛。凡夫说出来的话既然是由烦恼习气所引发,就难免对他人的害处远远大于好处,而且又缺乏真诚恭敬心。言谈当中 不知不觉就会误导人、伤害人,于是由许多的小磨擦而演变成大磨擦,终于破坏了彼此之间的和谐,于是就在犯了破六和敬的罪过,而自己往往还不知不觉。既然破 了六和敬,当然也破坏了正法道场,干扰了他人的正常修学,制造了恶劣的修学气氛,这个罪过当然不轻。

   3能够提升自己的忍辱功夫。凡 夫烦恼习气很重,遇到不称心如意的事情就会发牢骚,看人不顺眼就想去纠正人、批评人。譬如见人说话太大声,就想去制止他,见人关门动作粗鲁,发出巨大的声 响,又想去纠正他,见人小便后不冲水,就想去批评他。止语就可以避免这些过失,逼着自己样样都要忍耐,克服自己的烦恼习气,慢慢地就会做到「不见他人过, 只见自己过」,逐渐就会懂得「境缘无好丑,好丑在人心」,心渐渐不再被外境所转了。
   4能够提升自己的诚敬心,能够得到佛菩萨更大的加持。诚敬心多一分则多消一分罪,多增一分福慧,多得佛菩萨的一分加持。止语是佛菩萨之所欢喜,是依教奉行的表现,比起不修止语,对佛法、对护法、对众生、对道业的诚敬心是大大地提升了许多。

   5能够提升自己的警觉心。因为止语,受到别人的干扰会比较小,于是就有更多的精神照顾自己的起心动念,烦恼习气生起之时能比较迅速地察觉,并且令其息灭,久而久之,烦恼习气就会被控制住。同时也常常比较容易觉察出自己的毛病和过失,也能较快地改正过来。

    6能够比较有效地保护自己的清净心。不跟人说话时间久了,人家也不会找自己说话,不用常常应付人,受到的影响就小,就有更多的时间听经、读经、看书,凡事不闻不问,心里没有忧虑牵挂,心常能保持空灵,心就愈来愈清净,心愈清净就愈有智慧。

    7能够更好地学习随缘度日。因为止语,人不得不老实,不得不放下种种的要求和意见,凡事合自己的意思很好,不合自己的意思也很好,有也好,没有也好,得也好,失也好,渐渐地就学会了随缘度日,同时也不断学习在一切顺逆善恶境缘中保持心平气和,久而久之,烦恼就能伏住了。


    8能够放下种种恩怨。与 人多说,谈得投机则生感情,谈得不投机则免不了产生磨擦,就很容易与人结下怨仇,这些恩怨就会对往生造成很大的障碍。常常找人说话,有时无意中也会得罪 人,如果特别喜欢和某人说话,另一个人也许会想怎么就不跟我说话,是不是看不起我,所以也产生让人生烦恼的过失。同时也使自己失去了平等心,不能一视同 仁,平等对待一切人。

    9能够增长谦卑、恭敬的心。因为不再发表意见了,人家也不会再问您这样那样的问题,贡高我慢、自以为是的烦恼习气渐渐就会淡了下来,人人都不再对您多加关心,时间久了,就会感到自己是微不足道之人,谦卑、恭敬的心不知不觉也渐渐地增长起来了。

    10不提供机会让人与自己谈话,也减少了别人造业的机会,同时也能防止有人烦恼起现行而找借口来障碍自己的正常修学。

    11止语其实是在享清福。止语久了的人,会觉得说话是很麻烦、很辛苦的事,请他说话他会感到很不愿意,也很不自然。

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Building the model city of peace

Respected leaders from the government, respected leaders of various religions and faith traditions, and honored guests.
Today is a joyful day. Once again we are gathered here in this beautiful garden city, Toowoomba. Joining the forum today are our respected mayor and many elders and friends from Toowoomba. Together with those who are dedicated to promoting peace and harmony to make this world a better place as well as those who have travelled from far and near from various religions and faith traditions, we are all hoping and working as one to make Toowoomba a model city of peace and harmony.

The Cause of Disasters and How to Resolve It
We all know that our world is experiencing ever-increasing conflicts and chaos. Possibilities for armed conflicts are seen in many places. Natural disasters are occurring with increasing frequency. Some worry that the end of the world is coming. We have to ask, “What is the cause of these natural and man-made disasters? How do we resolve them?”
Dr. Masaru Emoto from Japan, with his renowned experiments on water, has proved that the crystallization of water can be changed from beautiful to ugly when experimenters’ thoughts change from kindness to evilness. This is perhaps a most direct proof of the law of cause and effect. Confucius taught in the Book of Shan: “. . . do good and a hundred good fortunes will manifest. Do evil and a hundred misfortunes will ensue.” The Bible says: “Woe unto the wicked! It shall be ill with him: for the reward of his hands shall be given him.” Isaiah 3:11 (King James Version). The Quran says: “And whatever of misfortune befalls you, it is because of what your hands have earned.” 42:30 (The Noble Quran).
We can thus see that due to the ill will of humanity as a whole, our world is experiencing both natural and man-made disasters. Selfishness, evilness, and such malevolence have created the problems in the world. According to the Buddhist sutras, greed causes floods, anger causes attracts fire (a rise in temperature), ignorance causes windstorms, arrogance causes earthquakes, doubt causes environmental frailty (including cave-ins, and landslides), selfishness and confrontation cause chaos and war, and evil mindsets cause illness and diseases. It is said that “All phenomenon arise from our minds; our environment can be transformed by the mind.” Quantum physics has revealed to us that matter is the creation of our will. Matter is influenced and controlled by our wills.
Mr. Gregg Braden from the U. S. has said that to change our world for the better in the time period described by the Mayan calendar in 2012, we must stop our wrongdoings and start doing good. Also, we must adjust our mindsets to become positive and kind.
Dr. Emoto once organized 300 people to conduct an experiment near Lake Biwa, Japan. They prayed to the stagnant cove water that had become foul smelling. The water became clean as the people kept sending it messages of love. As a result, the long-polluted cove of Lake Biwa became clean and remained so for nearly half a year. We can see that kind and pure thoughts truly can bring about a good and serene environment. If we can keep our minds in a state of sincerity, purity, equality, awakening, and compassion, then all natural and man-made disasters will gradually dissipate. The world will become peaceful and tranquil. Our earth will regain its beauty and wonder.

World Peace Begins with Religious Harmony
In 2005, the former prime minister of Malaysia, Dr. Mahathir, spoke with me. With great concern, he asked if our world would ever be peaceful again? I answered that if we can fulfill four conditions, then it is possible for peace to become a reality. He asked which four conditions? I said first of all, all countries had to treat one another equally and get along harmoniously. Then, the same applied to political parties, ethnic groups, and last, religious groups. If these four conditions could be achieved, and everyone treated one another equally and got along harmoniously, conflicts could be resolved and peace would be realized.
Upon hearing my words, Dr. Mahathir was silent for a while. I then said that these conditions were truly difficult and complicated to fulfill. But if we started with religious harmony and cooperation, then it could be achieved. Dr. Mahathir understood immediately.
Cooperation between religions is the key to world peace. All religious texts teach people to learn the lessons from saints and sages, from God and Buddha, about universal love, broadmindedness, selflessness, the abandonment of evil and promotion of kindness, letting go of greed, the betterment of spirituality, and doing everything we can to help all beings attain happiness and end suffering. The number of religious adherents around the world still surpasses non-believers. If all religious adherents could abide by their own religious teachings while at the same time treating other religious adherents with equality, with harmony while mutually learning, could cooperate and help one another, then this strong force for peace and harmony would surely bring about world peace.
Since 1998, we have done our part in promoting religious harmony and cooperation in Singapore as well as in Malaysia. The result has been joyful. Over the past ten years, we have seen work in the area of religious harmony become more visible. In February 2009, Griffith University and the Pure Land Learning College Association [PLLCA] hosted the “One Humanity, Many Faiths” summit in the Brisbane City Hall. Over 400 people from 148 religious organizations from Australia and Asian countries, and leaders from political and financial sectors attended. There was much positive feedback, resonating with the theme of the event. These experiences have shown us that all religions and faith traditions in the world are members of one family. As one family, religious harmony can be realized.

The Inspiration of the Lujiang Project of Harmony
For many years, I have had opportunities to report to various peace conferences initiated by the UN and UNESCO in different countries. I presented the wisdom, methods, and experiences from Chinese ancestors, saints, and sages in the area of achieving good governance for a nation. Many participants were pleased to hear about these ancient teachings, but they expressed doubt about its practicality. The only way to increase confidence for everyone was to establish a place with a peaceful experimental model in order to prove the validity of the teachings.
From 2005 to 2008, we went to the town of Lujiang, Anhui province, China. We decided to start with this town as a demonstration area. We promoted traditional Chinese culture, using Guidelines for Being a Good Person (Di Zi Gui) as the basic teaching material. These teachings promoted social cohesion and taught about peace and harmony. It was beyond our expectation that within a few months, great results were witnessed. The divorce rate of the town went down. The crime rate dropped. More people talked about family unity and engaged in neighborly exchanges than before. Even the streets were much cleaner and people changed for the better. The face of this 48,000 populated town was almost brand new.
These results have shown us that the innate nature of humanity is filled with purity and goodness. People seek eagerly to have a harmonious society and community. But most simply do not know the method to achieve it. Once a way is found, hope is within sight and most people are willing to do their best to see it realized. People can be easily taught. They can be taught to become better.

Conditions Have Matured for Toowoomba to Become a Model City of Peace and Harmony
Today, with the success of Lujiang as a point of demonstration, elders and leaders who are ready to help build Toowoomba into a model city of harmony have a clear direction and point of reference. Many staff members and students in the PLLCA have resided in Toowoomba for the past ten years. We have a good rapport with local residents and many religious organizations.
For ten years, the PLLCA has hosted a Friendship Dinner and multifaith forum on Saturday evening. Representatives from different faith traditions and religions are able to communicate in harmony and peace while residents are caring and kind to one another. Visitors have felt at home here just like members of a big family. In December 2011, at the tenth year anniversary celebration of the PLLCA, many faith leaders expressed their support and wish for making Toowoomba a model city of peace and harmony for the whole world. This is a deeply meaningful and tremendously insightful action. It is a blessed endeavor of the highest order.
    Toowoomba is a place with distinct characteristics. Residents come from many parts of the world, with different communities, ethnicities, and cultures. They each have their own customs and religious beliefs. Toowoomba is able to express its beauty in a multicultural setting just like a magnificent flower garden in which hundreds of different flowers blossom for the visitors to behold and gaze on in wonder.
Due to these unique characteristics, it is especially meaningful to help establish Toowoomba as a model city of peace and harmony. We wish to preserve and treasure the distinct features of each ethnicity and culture. With a mind that is loving, compassionate, and accepting, we can all mutually respect, accept, and harmoniously treat one another with impartiality.
When visitors come to Toowoomba, they will be able to see people of different colors and ethnicities with their diverse traditions and cultures thrive here as one family. This will bring real awakening to people of the world. This awakening is a simple realization—due to misunderstandings caused by a lack of  proper communications and mutual understanding, seeming differences between ethnicities, faiths, and customs have resulted in conflicts and even wars.
With the ease of travel and rapid exchange of information, our world has become a village. If we continue to fall back on erroneous old ideas, unwilling to let go of selfishness, narrow-mindedness, and rejecting of others, then human beings are not worthy of the name of “crown of creation,” and disasters, man-made or natural, will be unavoidable.
We should transcend superficial differences and deeply live the experience that we are one. The whole universe is one living entity.
We mutually respect, love, and cooperate with one another, setting ourselves as a model of peace and harmony to show the whole world that multi-racial, multicultural, and multifaith harmony—and peace—is achievable.
The ideal of the human race becoming one family is attainable.

Sustainable Peace and Harmony Relies on Religious Education
Making Toowoomba a model city of peace and harmony will require the leadership and guidance from each religion to realize peace and harmony. We hope to establish a Goodwill Committee in which religious leaders can come together on a regular basis to exchange ideas and share views. By participating in the religious activities held by other religions and by helping others with their charitable work, we can share our mutual wisdom, mutually learn from one another, and become one big family.
Sustainable peace and harmony can only be built on the solid foundation of religious education. In fact, religion initially was an education. The word religion in Chinese is zongjiao. Zong means primary, important, and to be revered. Jiao means education, teaching, and transformation. Hence, when the Chinese put these two characters together, it means primary education, important teaching, and a transformation to be revered.
There are five elements of an education: morality, virtue, causality, philosophy and science. This kind of education is the medicine that we need to right peoples’ deviated mindsets, and also to cure the problems we are facing in the world. It is the prescription that the world needs urgently. Founders of each religion were great educators. They all taught virtuous deeds such as harmony, mutual help, loving kindness, and altruism.
Each religion, based on equality and harmonious coexistence, should focus on its educational aspects and delve deeply into the essence of its own teachings. Each religion should share in the mission to assume the responsibility in educating society and make our world a better place, salvaging the declining social morals and upholding proper values of our society. Should we be able to do so, the saints and sages would be touched by what we have done and with their blessing, there would be less disasters for Toowoomba, and for our earth. With peace and harmony achieved among religions, then peace and harmony among ethnic groups, political parties, and countries will follow.
Religious organizations have one more vital task—we all need to nurture more teachers to help promote our own religions, to carry on the sacred teachings. I would like to suggest, first of all, to set up a Postgraduate Centre of Multifaith and Multicultural Education Research to train religious teachers for each religion.
With a good number of religious teachers available, we can then establish a Multifaith University to provide courses to the public in the five elements mentioned before: morality, virtue, causality, philosophy and science to further our pursuit of fostering future religious teachers from a wider community. The teachers should sincerely follow the motto of “Learn to be a teacher and act as a role model for all.”
These teachers would also implement the teachings of the sages and saints in their daily life. Not only will they delve deeply into the teachings of their own religions, they will also humbly learn from other religions. Later in life, in teaching their own faiths, they will be teaching their followers to treat other religious adherents with equality, harmony, mutual respect, and mutual cooperation. Together, these religious teachers will safeguard and make sustainable the fruit of peace and harmony in society.

Future Influences and Expectations
When Toowoomba succeeds in being a model city of peace and harmony, we should share our experiences with others. We hope to organize an annual get-together and demonstrate to the world our ideals, our experiences, our methods and also our achievements. We would like to welcome people from all over Australia, and from around the world, people who share the same vision to build peaceful and harmonious cities, to come here to see with their own eyes and to help them gain practical insights and inspiration, thus helping them achieve peace and harmony where they live.
If we could make Toowoomba a model city of peace and harmony, and the high standards of achievement could be sustained for over one year, we will set up a satellite television station here. The station will broadcast the continuous-learning way of life of the Toowoomba people to the world so the whole world will see the true marvel of living in peace and harmony. By that time, people around the world would all want to learn from the experiences of Toowoomba. They would want to come and visit. Many may even want to immigrate here. Toowoomba would certainly become more and more prosperous.
In turn, people all over the world would feel more and more strongly about the benefits of peace and harmony. They would become increasingly conscientious of their own purity of mind; they would treat others more equally and harmoniously. When the majority of the human race shares such kind thoughts and mindsets, there will be fewer natural and man-made disasters, and in the end we will be able to eliminate them all together.
The power of “setting an excellent example for others” is enormous. In ancient China, King Tang was able to rule in harmony all tribes within thirty-five kilometers of his kingdom. His deeds have been praised and highly regarded as the model of governing a country. His way was sought and learned by people all over China. It was the direct cause of a long period of peace and harmony in Chinese history.
Likewise, Toowoomba, the model city of peace and harmony will inspire and encourage people around the world, and help them to act and turn more and more cities in the world into model cities of peace and harmony. This is also a wish that has been in the heart of our mayor for many years. If this wish could be achieved during his term of office, it would be an auspicious achievement. The initial positive effect from such a model city would be emanated gradually. It would grow to become more multilateral, and in the end we would witness holistic and complete transformation. It would transform the chaotic world making it a peaceful place and restore the wounded earth back to a healthy planet.
As an old Chinese proverb says, “Actions speaks louder than words.” Today, we are here to discuss the plan to make Toowoomba a model city of peace and harmony. Later, when we leave our seats, let us use true actions to move forward in great strides towards our vision.
I sincerely wish the building of Toowoomba into a model city of peace and harmony will be a great success.
I sincerely wish all of you the best, good health, and happiness.


Shi Chin Kung AM

Honorary PhD, Syarif Hidayatullah State Islamic University, Indonesia
Honorary PhD, University of Southern Queensland, Griffith University, Australia
President, Pure Land Learning College Association, Inc., Australia
President, Hong Kong Buddhist Education Foundation, Ltd., Hong Kong
Honorary Professor, Griffith University, Australia
Honorary Professor, University of Queensland, Australia
Visiting Professor, People’s University of China, China
Trustee and Professor, Shandon University, China

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Najib Razak support Chinese education in Malaysia

Malaysia prime minister Mr. Najib is the very nice person towards Chinese education in Malaysia. Mr. Najib Razak is the open-minded person, he knows the importance of Chinese language can play the key role in instilling the traditional values for Chinese people. I admire his farsightedness although Mr. Najib is not Chinese.
When I hear the news, I feel very happy that Chinese people in Malaysia have the chance to learn more deeply about their culture. This is the reality not just talk only, Chinese school teachers in Malaysia mostly gone through the moral training like de zi qui or Confucius teaching. Yes, with that moral foundation, Chinese people will be able to prevent whitewash by western sub-culture. Yes, with superficial understanding of Chinese language and lack of learning its traditional values, with the hugh waves from western sub-values, they will be lost and only will follow western bad values or habits blindly. People say yellow banana because inside all white ( western bad habits or anything also can) that type of attitudes. With few generation, they will be surely washed by western tsunami

KUALA LUMPUR, Oct 17 (Bernama) -- Malaysia is the only country outside China that recognises Chinese education as part of the national education system, Prime Minister Datuk Seri Najib Tun Razak said today.
Describing this as being of great significance, he said no other country in the region recognised Chinese education.
"We are the only country outside China which has got Chinese education as part of the national system. We have recognised Chinese education in Malaysia, and I think that is of huge, great significance.
"Please see that in that context, in that perspective, that we have recognised Chinese education as part of the national system," he said during an hour-long interview with deejays of Melody FM, Astro Radio's second Chinese radio station, here.
Najib was the guest on the station's breakfast show 'Melody FM Morning Boss' with host announcers Chui Ling and Jentzen Lim.
The prime minister was responding to a question from one of the deejays on the efforts taken by the United Chinese School Committees Association of Malaysia (UCSCAM), or better known as Dong Zong, pertaining to Chinese education.
Najib explained that when he was the education minister, he had removed Section 21(2) of the Education Act 1961 which allowed the minister to convert a national type primary school to a national primary school.
This, he said, indicated that the government was sincere in recognising Chinese education.
He also said that the government recognised the existence of the 60 Chinese independent schools.
"The rest of the schools are conforming schools. In other words, they take the national examination," he said.
Najib also said that the government had come up with a creative solution to a recent request from the Chinese community in Kuantan to have a Chinese school.
"We said, you can have the school, provided you take the SPM (examination) but if you want to take the Unified Examination Certificate (UEC), that is up to you.
"They decided to accept that offer. So, it will be a secondary school, the kids will have to take the SPM (examination) but they will take the UEC in addition to the SPM. So, that is a kind of a win-win situation," he said.
Answering questions from listeners, Najib said he had announced a RM100-million allocation for national type Chinese schools in the country in Budget 2013.
He also said that the top 50 students of Chinese independent secondary schools were given scholarships to pursue their tertiary education.
On the shortage of teachers in Chinese primary schools, Najib said the eight-point plan to address issues in Chinese vernacular schools was being implemented now.
"It is under the purview of the deputy minister of education and he is making sure that it will be implemented," he said.
Najib also said that vernacular schools, including Chinese schools, would be part of the exercise to improve the quality of education under the National Education Blueprint.
"I believe we don't have any kind of stigma. My own son, Ashman, speaks fluent Mandarin.
"I believe it is good for the Malays to learn Mandarin just as it is important for Malaysian Chinese to be fluent in Bahasa (Melayu) as Bahasa, of course, is our national language," he said. Najib Razak's son also learning Chinese in China and now he can speak simple English. And he is interested in learning China traditional culture in Hans studies in Malaysia han studies institution which will be opened in few years time. With the genuine support from the Prime minister Mr. Najib Razak, Chinese people in Malaysia are the blessed because they got the chance to learn their traditional culture and its value so that they can have self-confidence as the Chinese, thanks Mr. Najib Razak has the wisdom. With Mr. Najib Razak's wisdom, I think Malaysia will be the better place to live. It can be the good model for Aisa or the whole world. Harmony will be prevail in Malaysia forever.


  

Monday, May 6, 2013

Najib Razak received a letter from Master Chin Kung

Your Excellency Prime Minister Najib Razak, It was a great pleasure to
have Your Excellency attend the groundbreaking ceremony of theMalaysian Academy of Han Studies a few months ago. The three thousand participants present were greatly
inspired by your high praise regarding the Chinese culture of harmony. Your Excellency has provided the greatest example of mutual respect and global exchange of traditional culture that I
gratefully admire. The essence of China’s culture of five thousand years is embodied in the
Complete Library of the Four Branches of Literature, and the complete wisdom of Buddha is embodied in the Qianlong Great Buddhist Canon. These Chinese classics have all profoundly expounded the teachings of morality, ethics and causality, reflecting on the cultivation of oneself, harmony of family relationships, stability of the country, and peace of the world. These classics have captured wisdom, concepts, methods, experience and effect of
practicing loving-kindness, loyalty and consideration for thousands of years, which is a worthy goal for modern people. These classics are all written in classical Chinese, so to inherit and propagate the wisdom of ancient saints.
and sages will require the cultivation of teachers. I have been praying for many years for receiving two books that contain the utmost essence:
Compilation of Chinese Literature on Cultivation (Guo Xue Zhi Yao) and the
Imperial Compilation of Books on the Principles of Governing (Qun Shu Zhi Yao)
. I finally received them last year and printed ten thousand copies of each for immediate donation. These two books can be used as the standard textbooks for teaching classical Chinese at the Malaysian Academy of Han Studies. I will be very pleased to provide them to friends who are enthusiastically fond of Chinese classics all over the world.
We will more than welcome the teachers from local community in Malaysia to learn classical Chinese together. I previously had the opportunity to visit the United Kingdom
twice, including the University of Cambridge and various colleges of the University of London. I had a chance to witness how lecturers and students mastered classical Chinese. In no
more than three years, they became competent in both reading classical
Chinese as well as writing. The renowned British historian, Dr. Arnold J. Toynbee, once said that
in order to resolve the social problems of the twenty-first century, we must rely on the teachings of Confucius and Mencius, and on Mahayana Buddhism. Both are in China. It is conceivable that in the foreseeable future the world will surely enter a brand new era of restoring Sinology and bring benefits to mankind. However, the restoration of traditional
Sinology requires an extensive amount of teaching resources. Therefore,
the merits of cultivating teachers are countless and benefits to humanity are incomparable. These merits belong to Your Excellency! I sincerely wish that Malaysia is prosperous and that
Malaysian people can live in lasting peace! I pray that there will never be
any disaster in Malaysia. My health is satisfactory. I currently lecture on Sutras and read
Sutras for four hours, respectively, every day in Hong Kong. I pray for the blessings and protection of the God of all religions and ancestors, for the restoring of traditional teachings of the saints and sages of all ethnicities, and for eliminating natural and man-made
disasters globally. Finally, I wish Your Excellency longevity, good health and the best of
good fortune! I wish your family good health and every success!
Chin Kung AM
At the age of Eighty-Six
April 19
th
,2012

Monday, April 29, 2013

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Friday, April 26, 2013

欲望是一切苦难的根源



色情泛滥对现代人的恶毒伤害(多图)

被误会的“饮食男女,人之大欲”
  有 人说我喜欢钱,喜欢女人,喜欢美女,喜欢享受刺激。这个你喜欢是吗?那是暂时没有事,这个人老吃肉,让他天天吃肉,他就不行,为什么呢?他也不知道。真正 的原因就是他不是这个物种啊,他违背了天理啊,他想吃肉,那个“想”是欲望,那些东西是后天养成的,先天没有。所以,我们明白了这个就知道,"我想"、" 我有这个欲望",这些东西都是错误的,所以中国孔老夫子教给我们一句话,很重要,叫什么呢?饮食男女,人之大欲。有人就讲,这个不是让我们去享受饮食,享 受男女吗?各位又理解错了。什么意思呢?饮食男女,人之大欲,这个大欲,我们知道欲望是一切苦难的根源啊!为什么这么讲?我们看这个"欲望",当你得到它 的时候,你有两种表现,第一个你糊涂,你比原来还糊涂。第二是什么呢?你傲慢,得到钱了,得到名了,你比原来更傲慢,这是凶险啊,凶灾啊!我没得到,我欲 望没有实现,没有实现怎么样呢?你就嗔恨,你就忌妒。两条路走哪一条只要是从欲望出发的,你都会生烦恼,有灾祸。我们听明白了,就知道孔老夫子讲这句话是 什么意思。什么意思呢?饮食男女,人之大欲呀,就是最大的危险。这是提醒我们啊,一个是饮食,一个是男女,最容易给你带来凶灾呀!
  今 天的社会充满了西方的价值观。西方价值观是什么呢?它跟东方的是相反的,东方讲清心寡欲。人要克制自己的欲望,不要让自己的欲望膨胀,不要让它受刺激。西 方是什么呢?天天刺激你的欲望。我们中国人听的音乐,大家听古琴弹起来啊,你身心就很清凉;我们中国人喝的茶叶,一闻它,很清香;我们住的房子啊,中国的 宫殿,古代的民居四合院,那些红墙绿瓦,青砖绿瓦,你仔细一看呢,你心里面呢,庄重,非常的庄重,绝对不是欲望。反过来,我们再看西方的建筑,你看它灯红 酒绿,高楼大厦,进去之后很豪华。我们想一想,你那个欲望就升起来了,你可以仔细去做这个试验。再有,我们穿的这个衣服,今天人讲究穿着要性感,这个是中 国古代所没有的,都是西方传过来的,说,我们穿着一定要性感,男子要有魅力,女子要性感,要吸引人,都跟电视里明星学的。你看他们穿的那个衣服,非常暴 露,跟各位讲,不会穿衣服啊,违背了天性。怎么违背天性呢?色情泛滥,违背天性,按照西方人所谓的这种纵欲,这种刺激的生活,找情人,找七个、八个,三 个、俩个,你过这种生活,哪里知道你的身心啊,倍受摧残!
西医不了解生命的真相
   有人就讲,这个真相是这样子么?给大家讲一个比较通俗好懂的情况。人,是一个生命的现象,活的。他所有的精华都藏在哪里呢?藏在我们的肾精里。男子女人 有性行为的时候,分泌液体,男子叫精液,女子叫白浊。中医所讲,这个东西叫肾精。西医呢?西方人他不懂,他拿这个显微镜给你化验,他说,男子的精液啊,女 子分泌的液体啊,成分是完全一样,确实这样。他说,这个东西就是蛋白质,他只看到了里面的蛋白质。他说,这个相当于什么呢?相当于两个鸡蛋的蛋白质的含 量,这是西方的西医,他不了解生命的真相,他不知道怎么回事啊。他讲得不全面,可以说是不科学的。实际上是怎么样呢?各位,我们一定要知道肾精啊,男子女 人都是这样,它不是仅仅指的这个形式,这个液体,它包括三样东西,哪三样儿东西呢?第一个,形,它有外形,它有形状,液体;第二个是什么呢?气;第三个是 神。形、气、神,气和神我们看不到,但是它真实存在。
  我们看大公鸡,雄赳赳,你看它的眼睛非常有神,那公鸡宰了之后,它那个眼睛就没神。这个东西真的有,你是摸不到。这是我们中医祖祖相传,一直到现在,我们知道。
传 统文化最宝贵的一面,它把生命现象讲得非常彻底。人一定也是有外形、有气啊,人有气概啊,这个人气质小,那个人气质大呀。气跟气不一样,神跟神更不一样。 这个人神气足,那个人神气弱,你说这个神是什么呢?它真存在,它没有形状,形、气、神,生命现象的三种特点。那么肾精绝对不是西医讲的俩鸡蛋的蛋白质,它 是你全部生命的最精华的浓缩。它不是俩鸡蛋,你弄俩,你弄四个鸡蛋弄一杯子里,能出来一孩子吗?那不可能啊。那为什么呢?它不是蛋白质这么简单,这里面有 气,这里面有神。我们这个生命从哪里来?父亲和母亲,男子的精,母子的血,父精母血,结合成为了我们这个生命。
   生命的最精华,男子女人都藏在这个肾精里面,肾精还有一个重要的作用,荣华五脏。我们心、肝、脾、胃、肾这个五脏六腑啊,它靠什么来滋养?就靠这个肾精 来滋养,就好像是这个营养品一样,天天的滋养。所谓"荣华五脏",我们平时老说,祝你荣华富贵。富贵是指什么呢?富贵是指你外在的财富,你能够升官呀,发 财呀,家里吉祥啊,这是外在。荣华是指什么呢?是指你五脏非常坚固,你的五脏滋养得非常好。什么意思呢?就是你的肾精常在,肾精不流失啊,是这个意思。荣 华是五脏坚固、健康;荣华富贵,富贵是指我们的外在物质幸福。荣华是祝我们健康,是这么个意思。我们过去常常不懂得,这个老话都被误会了。那我们知道,肾 精还有这么大的作用,它不光是延续后代,它还养我们的五脏,养我们的命。
美女?吸骨髓的!
   我们的大脑的下面是什么呢?是脊髓。脊髓的下面是什么呢?是肾精。肾精、脊髓,脊髓就是脊椎骨里面的那个骨髓啊,那个是最宝贵的,我们知道治白血病都用 那个东西。它的上面是脑脊髓,脑髓啊,连通在一起的。那么西医也证明了,这确实是存在的。西医证明男子女人在性行为的时候,所分泌的这些液体,它的成分和 脑脊液、和脊髓的成分完全一致。我们就知道,这证明了我们中国五千年前老祖宗中医所讲"精生髓,髓生海",精,肾精,它坚固,它往上生,生骨髓;骨髓又坚 固,又很充盈啊,饱满啊,他又长养你的脑海,"精生髓,髓生海",生脑海。所以人不纵欲,他不大量的流失肾精,这个人身体好,脑子好使。那反过来呢?今天 的色情网站,色情泛滥,情人泛滥,色情场所泛滥,大家纵欲。男子女人,无论老少,都受西方价值观影响:人活着干什么呢?有点钱了,有了机会了,不就是要纵 欲吗?不就是为了享受刺激吗?要知道你那种幸福是假的,根本不是幸福,那个代价太悲惨了!真正的幸福没有代价,没有任何副作用啊!大量的流失肾精啊,男子 女人都一样,大家千万不要认为只有男子才伤身体,女子一样啊。大量的流失肾精之后,你肾精亏虚了,空了,骨髓呀,脊髓它就往下流,就往下补充啊,它是连通 的嘛,脊髓又流失了很多,又空了,空了之后怎么样了呢?脑髓就下来了。各位,我们这才知道,今天的年轻人,有钱的这些老板,这些追求时尚、追求刺激的人 们,天天的纵欲,他所流失的肯定和蛋白质没关系,那个不是真相,我们知道是精、气、神,生命长养,养你的五脏,养命的精华呀,你天天大量流失,我们知道, 最后流失的不是精液,是什么呢?是你的脊髓、骨髓、脑髓,今天听明白了之后,你就老实了。是这么回事啊。
   你不是好色吗,喜欢美女吗?下次你一看到美女,你就知道,这是吸脑髓的来了。你看今天人的价值观,你去问问大学生,“我很羡慕那些老总,电视剧里面演, 那个老总出来,后面好几个情人;我的同学,他老爸爸,跟我们炫耀,他有好几个情人。”你下次就告诉他,你不要以丑为美,以非为是了。你那六、七个情人,那 都是六、七个吸你脑髓的,你有什么可高兴的呀?
   所以各位听了这个汇报,我们回去之后啊,你就给你老公,给男朋友讲啊,他就老实了,他就彻底凉快了。为什么呢?中国有一句老话,"家有丑妻是个宝"啊, 这是真的呀。所以有人说,下面确实有观众讲啊,说,你看,张总其实挺傻的,你看他这么有钱,你看他的太太,一点儿都不性感。各位,那是糊涂人讲的话呀,人 家张总是最有智慧。为什么呢?他肾精充盈呀,他身边没有吸他脑髓、吸他骨髓的呀。
  农村老奶奶的智慧
    中国古人常讲,红颜祸水。什么叫红颜祸水?这是不是欺压妇女?不是。我们到那些教表演的大学里听那些课程,各位不知道吧,那些课程在教什么?你们有机会去 看看那个教材,可了不得,我们把孩子交那儿,交给学校,还花着学费,让她学什么呢?老师教的表演课呀,教什么呢?你这个眼神看过去之后,要把他的那个魂儿 给他勾过来,在教这个!你还不要觉得奇怪,因为现在电视里面,挑演员、挑明星啊,收视率最高的就是这种,她一定要弄成狐狸精的样子,看你一眼让你神魂颠 倒,你就有收视率了。过去我们常听农村老奶奶讲啊,看到儿子、孙子把女朋友带回来,一看,好家伙,这家伙像妖精一样就进来了。老妈妈就急了,把儿子拽到一 边去,你不能娶她呀,这个是要你命的,红颜祸水呀!
  纵欲,你的五脏就没有营养去滋养它
  
   各位,中国古人告诉我们,这是中医讲的科学,我们一定要听。这科学讲的是什么呢?自然规律呀,首先三十岁的时候啊,男女的夫妻生活呀,性行为啊,多长时 间一次呢?8天。为什么是8天呢?7天才能够完成一次身体的这个最精华的生成,完成这个过程,这是科学,我们一听,就听得明白。鸡蛋好吃,你跟这个老母鸡 下个命令,一天不能只生一个蛋,你一天必须得下十个蛋,它生不出来呀,它体内的这些营养,种种的,它得合成啊,最后,它一天给你生一个蛋啊,那是它全部的 能量啊,精华都在那里边呢!老母鸡,太老了,它为什么不生蛋了?它没有这个能力,它功能丧失了吗?没那个能量,这是科学啊。听明白这个就好懂了嘛,三十岁 的时候你的身体能达到那个程度,三十岁是8天一次。那么40岁?15天。50岁,一个月,60岁,要停止。为什么呢?你整个身体的机能已经没有这个能力 了。你再去有这种男女的行为怎么样?纵欲怎么样呢?你的五脏就没有营养去滋养它了,你是要你的心、肝、脾、胃、肾啊,还是要这个男女行为啊?你来两次男女 行为,你这五脏就没有保命的东西了,所以这个东西它是荣华五脏,保命的,你把这个东西拿去纵欲了,你这是不想活了吗?这不就很简单了吗?那么明白什么叫红 颜祸水了,不管你多大年纪,周围看着,那个女子顾盼流离,你天天看着她神魂颠倒,你还能干成什么事吗?你能安心工作、安心学习吗?红颜祸水,那是真的。所 以古人常讲,你一动这个念头,过去说这个人"下流",好像是骂人的,不是啊,那是教育啊。什么意思呢?这个人一不正经、一有这种淫乱的心的时候,一有这种 想法,有这种语言的时候,人家说,你“下流”,不是骂你,什么意思呢?警告你,你脑脊髓现在正在往下流嘛。你肾精都空了,你还在那儿不三不四呢,那就是脑 脊髓在往下流啊。提醒你,往下流呢,你小心点儿吧,要没命了,这是教育啊!
  你穿的性感、暴露,你就天天害人
   各位,我们才明白中国的老话,句句都是科学呀,可了不得呀!我们就知道,下次灯红酒绿,你看到这个男子有魅力,那个女人性感,全是吸脑髓的。我们大家就 明白,今天我们穿衣服一定要穿得暴露、性感,太太往老公面前一站,你看我是不是很性感呢?那个东西违背人伦呢,违背自然的身体的规律啊。各位不要看不起古 人的衣服啊,老祖宗的衣服,女子的衣服从来没有像现在这么暴露过呀。很多人说,你太封建了,这不是封建,这是科学呀,天天让女孩子穿得这么暴露,你想想在 她周围的人,他不受害吗?你们看,我这个衣服宽衣大袖,一点儿都不性感啊,这个衣服很好啊,人家看了之后他心里清静、庄严,想起来读书,有书卷气,这多好 啊,给人都是这个信息。你穿的衣服已经少得不能再少了,让人家天天地下流啊,脑脊髓下流啊,你就天天害人呢。
   所以我们讲你会吃饭吗?你会穿衣服吗?你穿的衣服性感、暴露,那个衣服都缺德呀!现在我们看那些年轻女孩子的衣服,那怎么都不像一件衣服啊,就那么几根 绳儿在那儿,哪能穿在身上吗?我是做记者的,我很喜欢观察社会,我喜欢看社会现象。有时候到衣服店里我就看,说这个衣服啊一千八,我就看,我说这不是一堆 绳儿在这儿挂着吗?它怎么是衣服呢?然后她就像变戏法儿一样,咵咵咵一弄,我一看,像网兜儿一样,穿上,都是露的呀。各位,我过去也完全不懂啊,西方价值 观,她真性感啊,回头一笑百媚生,觉得这个是好,你哪里知道啊,要是把这么个女子娶到家里,你就短命啊。你短命,你父母就白发人送黑发人呢,你大不孝啊。 你的什么事业全部都拉倒了!我们大家要知道这个了呀,三十岁的时候是八天一次,现在你去问问这些年轻人一天八次啊,他怎么会不早死?他怎么会不生病?完全 违背了伦理道德。你问他,他还很冤枉,他说,我根本就坐不住啊,我根本就心神不宁。为什么?她穿这么性感,画得这么性感,看得我呆不住。你看,各位,全部 都是因为什么呢?刚才我们讲,你会说话吗?会穿衣服吗?完全都没有了人性的教育,我们中国古人这些衣服全都跟教育有关系,跟人性有关系,跟你的健康,跟你 的寿命,跟你的吉凶祸福有关系。
  喜欢邪气,这是现代可怕的社会风尚
   大家想一想,像张总这样有德行的人,他一定是谷大嫂那么很敦厚的女子跟他才好,吉祥啊!你想,张总家产四个亿,他也花天酒地,边上几个妖精在那儿,那他 不会活到今天的呀。我们才知道,你的财富,你的吉祥,你的一切,怎么能够保有得住呢?第一个,你自己心里要安定;第二个,你要有智慧。你会娶媳妇吗?你会 找对象吗?你会跟人来往吗?相由心生啊,我们今天看到很多奇奇怪怪的现象,什么现象呢?这个明星很走红,他长得歪瓜裂枣的,也不知道是哪儿好,他就特别 红。什么原因呢?跟各位讲,今天人喜欢邪气,正经了没人喜欢,这是现代多么可怕的风尚啊,他认为这个歪瓜裂枣的,他很性感。各位,如果把性感当成了价值观 会怎么样呢?中学的女孩子、男孩子填调查表说自己的理想,他们什么理想啊?有钱,然后要找一个帅一点儿的,找一个性感一点儿的女孩子,我自己要性感,都把 这列为人生计划!想让他得到幸福的人生,那不是做梦吗?所以,西方的价值观,我们到今天体会了几十年了,我们看透了种种的社会乱象,到了该清洗的时候,到 了该觉悟的时候。这些东西,饮食男女,人之大欲。这个大欲啊,就是最大的危险。
  我 们古人讲什么呢?古人不是不让你有欲望,不是不让你有男女,不让你有饮食啊,告诉给你什么呢?告诉你礼节。礼是什么呢?礼是大家的关系,大家的态度;节是 什么呢?节就是节制,你得有分寸,多长时间是一个周期,那叫节制,你按照自然规律来,你才不会生病,这是多么科学呀。你到苏州园林去,你到古香古色的地方 去,它的环境,它的住房,它整个的气氛啊,绝对不会刺激你旺盛的食欲和你的男女的欲望,大家可以做试验。你到那个里面,听那个音乐你就很安静、很安详,你 这方面的欲望就很低。你看,连建筑它都是教育啊。
   我们再做一个仔细的观察,我们到北京、到西安,到很多旅游城市,你看,凡是喜欢来中国的外国人,有一个最大的特点,全都是老年人,我观察很多年了。他为 什么喜欢到中国来?他到中国来,来看什么?他来看中国的这些传统文化,亭台楼阁、琴棋书画。为什么呢?因为老年人的欲望低,和清心寡欲的这种文化呀,它相 感应,多简单呀。那为什么那些外国的年轻男子女人不来呢?中国的这些清心寡欲的这些建筑啊,文化音乐呢,跟他呀没什么太大的感觉。
   我们再看今天的中国年轻人,他愿意来四合院啊,亭台楼阁呀,这些古迹里面玩吗?他喜欢在书房里看古书吗?不喜欢,他非常不喜欢,他穿着耐克、阿迪达斯, 喝着可乐,他喜欢到哪儿?他喜欢去那些灯红酒绿,他喜欢往外国跑。为什么呢?那个地方,全部在刺激你的欲望,尤其是男女的欲望,一到那个地方去,你就感觉 到。所以,今天中国年轻人,他都喜欢往那些地方去。为什么呢?全部年轻人的欲望被激发起来,所以我们年轻人看不起我们老祖宗,这个老过时了,这个衣服,这 个亭台楼阁,什么这都过时了,你看人家奔驰、宝马,高楼大厦,灯红酒绿,找情人。各位,早死啊,你学那个东西一定早死啊。
  为什么三十多岁的得糖尿病的这么多?
  我们为什么要学传统文化?唯一的一个目的,希望不要出现灾祸,不要出现疾病,不要出现意外,不要出现夭折。纵欲能有什么疾病呢?
第 一个,糖尿病。糖尿病有三种:上焦、中焦和下焦,下焦就是肾精亏虚,肾精亏虚之后,就得重症糖尿病。你不是喜欢刺激吗?糖尿病啊,二十多岁、三十多岁的现 在为什么这么多得糖尿病?纵欲呀。哎,你别以为有钱、身体好,就天天找这种刺激,你愿意得糖尿病吗?痛苦死了。第二个,中风和偏瘫,什么原因?纵欲,有一 个老总,三十五岁,很年轻啊,轮椅推出来的,家产多少千万,轮椅推出来的,嘴是歪的,神志不清,不会说话。三十五岁以后,人生要在轮椅上度过,爸爸妈妈白 发苍苍,推着他呀!你是享受刺激,享受了几年,然后你剩下的几十年,你就不活了!第三个是什么呢?坏疽,中医讲,手脚烂掉了,怎么办呢?到西医那儿看,没 办法,锯掉了,它已经彻底溃烂了。什么原因呢?纵欲。各位,这些东西都不是开玩笑的,所以我们今天让孩子上网,你上吧,你学那些性感的,学穿这些衣服吧。 我们可是不知道啊,将来这三种重病你怎么跑?有一个病例,二十岁的孩子长的模样像十三岁的,瘦小干枯啊。为什么呢?天天的纵欲。小的时候上网啊。医生讲, 从小手淫,纵欲呀,然后怎么样呢?因为大量的流失肾精,脊髓、脑髓,他记忆力不好呀。为什么今天很多人脑子不好用,脑脊液大量流失,孩子们也是这样,在最 需要他的那个精华来保养他五脏的时候,他纵欲啊,纵欲之后,身体不能发育,20岁的时候长得还像13岁,我们看的那个照片,很可怕。骨头稍稍一碰,骨折, 为什么?中医讲,肾主骨生髓呀,全身上下所有的骨头,都是靠肾经,肾脏来主管的,就这么个道理。所以你伤了肾,那可了不得呀。所以,今天我们认为孩子们出 去看看大片,交交女朋友、男朋友,夜不归宿,堕胎,无所谓,各位,那个灾祸是连连不断。
性亢奋是反常的,你的生命要到头了
   还有人提问题,说你看,我现在身体特别好,我性欲很旺盛,我身体没有什么感觉,他觉得自己跟你说的完全不一样,什么30岁的时候八天一次,他认为他身体 性欲亢奋。男子女人,今天这样的人很多,这个病人他去找医生,怎么回事?很简单,你这种反应,身体反应,首先我们要知道他是反常的,他不是正常的。正常 的,我们刚才已经讲了那个周期了。你现在是个什么现象呢?打个比方,油灯快灭了的时候,它突然就亮了,它比平时亮很多倍,它怎么马上就那么亮了呢?很简 单,回光返照,马上就要灭了。我们大家,无论是男子还是女人,你千万不要说,我现在这个性欲亢奋是身体支持得了,告诉你,你那个亢奋是反常的,你已经快要 这个灯灭、油干,你生命的尽头要到了,你这灯快灭了!
   今天我们看到很多害人的广告,那贴在电线杆子上啊,贴得到处都是,报纸、杂志、电视里都有,它讲什么呢?你不是不亢奋吗?你吃了这个药就管用,这个叫壮 阳药,女子呢,它治你的性冷淡,男子呢,治疗你阳痿。各位,这些药物我们告诉给大家,都是害人的!那为什么叫害人的呢?举一个简单的例子:外面天气很热, 屋里很冷,你屋里有空调,你从外面进来,进来之后,一到很冷的地方,你这个鸡皮疙瘩就起来了,这是自然的,它是身体的自我保护的机能。为什么呢?这个地方 太冷了,肌肉缩在毛孔的边上,不让你的热量排出去,怕你的热量流失过多,这是自我保护的一个功能。身体各个器官都有自我保护的功能,这是天生的,这是天然 的。男子阳痿,女子的性冷淡,都是在提醒你,你的身体自我保护功能已经开始启动了,警告你,你这个时候不能够再有这种行为了,你需要自我保护了,你看,身 体呀非常的科学,但是你吃了这个药可就麻烦了,吃了这个药,它把你这个机能给你破坏了,就好像是那边着火,这边警报器响了,吃这个药就好像把警报器给关 了,让那个火继续着,多可怕呀!我们明白这个,就知道这些广告都是把你自我保护的机能通通破坏掉,你感觉好像是这个药物挺管用,实际上它正在要你的命啊!
妇科重症疾病的原因之一:纵欲
   现在川菜在全国各地流行,尤其年轻人,深更半夜十二点之后,去吃麻辣火锅。他为什么爱吃麻辣?纵欲啊,什么原因呢?中医告诉我们,肾精伤了之后,它就会 连到胃,连到胃经之后啊,这个胃经伤了之后,他的味觉系统整个的就都受到损伤,但是他又饿,怎么办呢?就必须得吃那个刺激性。生活在四川,那么湿热的地 方,吃辣是正常的。北方,全国各地都在吃辣的,很多年轻人,为什么呢?他的味觉破坏了,他必须靠这个来刺激才能吃得下饭,原因是肾精伤了,肾精伤了的原 因,就是纵欲呀。
   再有,现在得宫颈糜烂的,得子宫癌,得这些妇科疾病的,非常多。什么原因呢?中国有一句老话,那是真理啊。叫什么呢?"三精成一毒,专伤不洁女"。什么 意思呢?这个女子呀,她很风流,沾花惹草,跟很多男人,找情人嘛。比如说,你今年找了一个情人,明年找了个情人,后年找了个情人。你的身体它有自我保护功 能,这是天生的,你如果是这样乱来的话,三精成一毒,三个以上这样的男子的精液在你的身体里,它就是会成为非常严重的毒素,所以你得这些妇科的重症的疾 病,原因之一就在于自己的纵欲呀,不检点啊。这都是科学,不是谁发明的。所以,我们今天看到年纪轻轻,20多岁,她为什么会得这么重的病?纵欲呀,色情的 泛滥啊。我们今天明白了这些,我们才知道,原来如此,从来没有听说过。
止乎礼,你人生就没有灾祸
   人有什么样的内心,你必然会感得来、感召来什么样的人。你不是想找情人吗?你现在还没有这个行为,但是你有这个想法,各位,你有这么一个念头,这个念头 它就是能量,就像给手机拨号,你拨了一个网通的号,网通那边它准有反应,真的。你心里想找情人,你有这个念头,那个也想找情人的人呢,你就像给他打电话一 样,他准能接到信号,他准来找你。所以说各位,情人为什么会出现在我们的身边,出现在我们的生活当中?你想找啊,你只要有这个念头,你说我现在没这个行 为,各位,这个灾祸一定会出现在你的生命里面,为什么呢?你天天在那儿发射这个信号,他自自然然,他都会出现。我们就要明白,不要怨任何人,情人是你找来 的,这些不三不四的男子、女人全部都是你所找来的。所以我们就知道,中国古人讲,清心寡欲,它是有道理的。人不能纵欲,应该怎么样呢?"发乎情止乎理" 呀,你说我喜欢这个女孩子,我有感情,可以啊,这是人正常的感情嘛,发乎情,有感情,不是发乎欲的,你说我对她有欲望,那个是违背人道的。你对她有感情, 发乎情,不是发乎欲,发乎情,你怎么样呢?你要不要过去拥抱她,向她求爱呢,不要,要怎么样?止乎礼,你们之间要讲礼节,这样的话,你人生就没有灾祸。我 们今天怎么样呢?随着自己的欲望啊,随着自己的感情走啊。不但是色情泛滥,感情也泛滥,随着自己的感情,我喜欢他,我就跟他说,你得止乎理呀。所以,我们 中国古人是从情到欲,都给我们研究得明明白白,然后通过圣贤的教育给我们加以规范。
  一棵树,能让它乱长吗?
   我们今天的年轻人会说什么呢?哎呀,老爸老妈,你学这个去多累啊,我每天累得都够呛了,还让我学这个,还让我天天坐那么正,多累呀!各位,他为什么会觉 得累?你看我们这些老师们,在这儿坐得很直,我们在台上一讲讲几个小时,为什么不累?这里面有太深的道理呀,人坐得很规范,行为很规范,不是约束,那叫规 矩。一棵树,能让它乱长吗?一定要削去枝杈,他为什么觉得痛苦呢?他不习惯,他有欲望,把他那个欲望啊,给他降低了,灯泡给他擦干净了,他这么坐着呀,最 舒服,一点儿都不累,你让他斜着坐沙发里,他一会儿就累了。所以,大家就知道,人性里面它本来就是规矩的,做一个规矩的人,正人君子。女子是什么呢?贤惠 贞良,她本来人性就是这么美好啊。你觉得自由自在好,你在这儿群魔乱舞,在这儿疯狂纵欲,你觉得这个是幸福,那个不是,那个是假的。为什么说呢?那个东西 一旦没有了之后,你马上就痛苦。而真正幸福是没有这些美女,这些美酒的刺激,种种享乐的刺激,这是什么呢?就是人性它本来向内求,不要向外求。向外求,那 都是刺激,向内求,你自自然然就得到了幸福。
名牌大学你最后去当小姐去,你怎么学的?
   前一段时间我们在报纸上看到一个新闻,查抄夜总会,五百多名小姐,风尘女子,陪着喝酒啊,陪笑啊。说实在,我们看到了非常可怜,这些风尘女子我们一看这 个学历啊,研究生、博士生、大学生,连门口那个招待都是这样的学历。为什么呢?她喜欢那享受,觉得到了歌厅里,现在笑贫不笑娼。她到那里面去,甭管是陪他 干什么,我都愿意,只要给钱就行。现在人色情泛滥,享受泛滥,西方价值观教给我们什么呢?这些东西啊。
   中国人是什么呢?富贵不能淫,我有钱了,我有了地位了,那个“淫”是什么意思呢?不过分。他保持他那个规矩,保持他的礼节;威武不能屈,你再有权势,你 不能让我屈服,我有我的人格;贫贱不能移,我是个穷大学生,你想给我点钱,让我陪你喝杯酒,你做梦啊?我不可能这样的,这是让我父母蒙羞的事情啊!中国人 历来都是这个样子的,所以我们去大学做汇报,有人就讲了,说他现在还是喜欢西方。我说你看,我打个比方,你不是喜欢钱吗?你看,齐白石,我给他拿了个画像 看,你看齐白石,他老人家一席长衫,那个长衫特别不值钱啊,可他随手画俩虾米,比你们家那个楼都值钱啊。人值钱!你不是羡慕西方吗?你不是觉得中国的画家 不值钱?好。西方毕加索值钱吗?毕加索讲过一句话,你不知道。毕加索讲什么呢?他说,我不敢到东方,不敢到中国去。为什么呢?因为那里有个齐白石啊!你 看,这是毕加索讲的呀。我们今天人呢,就为了这点欲望,饮食也好,男女也好,就为了这点欲望,丧失了人格呀,什么事都做得出来。一个女大学生,你父母花血 汗钱几十万给你弄了一个研究生,你最后去当小姐去!名牌大学毕业,你怎么学的?各位,圣贤教育要丧失了的话,人就不像人了。
  从三位总理到齐白石、梅兰芳
   我们在六、七十年代,五十年代的时候,我们中国人贫贱不能移,威武不能屈。举个例子,我们周恩来总理,那个时候尼克松访华,我印象很深,我看那个新闻简 报,尼克松访华,美国总统一定要"空军一号",说,我们从北京要飞到上海苏州,我们要保护总统的安全,必须要坐我们"空军一号",那个时候咱们国家和美国 还没有建交,没有建交那是不允许它那个飞机,在我们国内境内飞行的,那是国格啊,人有人格,国有国格儿啊,但人家美国人不同意啊,说,不行,我们要保证总 统安全。我们周恩来总理,他穿的那个中山装,我们后来参观博物馆,那个中山装里面全都是补丁啊。哎,外面当然很整洁,里面都是补丁啊!我们是穷啊,但是周 总理给他们讲,回去请转告你们的总统,我周恩来陪他,我坐在他的对面,一定坐我们的飞机,我们的飞行员是世界上一流的,我周恩来亲自陪着他去。所以我们后 来在那个记录片里看到,周恩来总理坐在尼克松对面,谈笑风生。你有钱,你强大,但是你到了我们中国,对不起,你得听我们的话,你是客人。我从那个新闻记录 片看到,尼克松下了飞机之后,他第一个走到飞机驾驶舱,跟我们的飞行员握手,说我们的飞行员是世界真正一流的飞行员,你们总理说的是真的,你们飞得真好。 看到那个记录啊,我很喜欢看,为什么呢?有中国人的样子,真长志气。看着这个,看着现在这些女大学生去当小姐呀,他们就是往国外去,嫌贫爱富,嫌我们中国 穷啊,我就生气,我就觉得他丢脸,我就觉得我们中国人,现在什么都不缺,需要中国人的样子,需要人格。
   我还特别钦佩朱镕基总理,他老人家当年视察,给那些官员题了一句话,我印象非常深,他老人家讲,你们这些官员,要怎么样呢?少吃肉,多长骨头。今天呢, 我们把朱镕基总理这个话,也劝告给天下所有这些做子女的,做大学生的,少吃肉,多长骨头呀,要有人格啊。我们是穷,我现在是个穷学生,没什么。但是我绝对 贫贱不能移呀,你给我俩钱,你给我一些物质,那些东西在我眼里如粪土啊,那算什么,是不是?我们温总理最近在三月份两会的时候讲,我们中国人不但要过上富 裕的生活,还要过上尊严的生活。人要有尊严呢!
齐白石,一代大师啊,那么伟大的艺术家,他的名字叫齐璜,日本人打进来的时候,要把他从中国抢到日本去,日本人知道他是国宝啊。他就对着那个汉奸,对着日本人就讲,我叫齐璜,齐璜,中国人,要让我去日本,可以,拿头去,拿我的脑袋去吧。
  梅兰芳一代大师,日本人来的时候,留胡子不给你唱,你不是想看女旦角儿,这个四大名旦吗?留胡子不给你唱,蓄须明志,这是我们中国人啊!
色情泛滥的根本原因:丧失了人格的教育
   各位,再看今天我们的这些后代,你当爸爸妈妈不给我钱,我就跳楼,我就死给你看。背着父母去当小姐,去傍大款,他给你钱,你就跟他叫爸爸。所以说,各 位,色情泛滥,享受泛滥,什么原因呢?我们把这个课就落在这个尾声上,什么原因呢?丧失了人格的教育,丧失了人性的教育,丧失了作为一个人起码的基本的教 育!这个没有,你再有钱,你长得再好,人家看不起你呀!你在歌厅,你在酒吧,你在那个地方去,你长得如花似玉,你全身上下全是名牌儿,你那个价值一千万, 各位,你不值钱啊!所以我常常跟大学生讲,我说人要是不值钱,这一生就白活儿了,你父母白养你了。所以我常常给他们讲,你会找女朋友吗?会找男朋友吗?他 说,此话怎讲啊?我说,你看,这个男朋友往你面前一坐,今天都是这个样子:你知道我这块表多少钱吗?八千多。你知道我这个皮鞋多少钱吗?六千多。你知道我 们家住多大的房子?我开什么车吗?这个女大学生就来问我啊,她说,这个有什么不对呢?我说,你是要嫁给这样的人吗?她说,对。我就告诉给这个女孩子,我说 呀,他身上这些都是他用来向你炫耀的,他唯独没有说他有什么价值,也就是说,那些手表,皮鞋都比他值钱。你想想啊!
  世界上最值钱的东西是什么?
   今天,人就是完全被物化了,男子、女人,老少,全都是这样,不管是什么身份,一张嘴,我们家住多大的房子,我们挣多少钱,我们家这电视机,我们这个享 受,车,不就说这个吗?各位,谁最值钱呢?人最值钱呢!那些东西跟你比,那是粪土啊!真正自信的人,真正有人格的人,就像刚才我们讲齐白石,一袭青衫,真 不值钱,那个值几个钱?他画俩虾米,真的是比那个楼都值钱呢,他人最有价值!我们今天被物化了,走到哪儿都说这些物质的东西,各位,这个是丢人呢!你应该 讲什么呢?我们,我的孩子,我自己什么地方值钱。包括很多的医院,我去采访,他们都在讲,我们医院怎么好,我们学校怎么好,你们学校怎么好了?你看,我们 学校多大的大楼,我们有多好的设备,我听了这个之后,我就知道那一定是一个糊涂的校长啊,一定是个糊涂的医院的院长,为什么呢?各位,这个世界上最最值 钱,最最有价值的一定不是这些东西,一定是人。有一句话说得很好,很有意思,多少年之前我去北京的一个商场,在墙角那个地方,写了一排字,我一直记到今 天,那真的是很对,写什么字呢?“凡事用钱能买来的,都不贵。”什么叫凡是用钱买来的都不贵呢?什么意思呢?凡是有价钱的,都不值钱,无价的才值钱啊。所 以我们天天说,我们家这个值钱,那个值钱,错了!一定要记得,要开发人的价值,人最值钱的是他的人格啊,他的人品啊!无价之宝,就是他的德行啊!
  色情心即是魔心,大家一定要警惕呀!
  戒邪淫七部曲
  仁者
   一、前提是知苦回头。佛法四圣谛:苦集灭道,展开来就是知苦、断集、慕灭、修道。所以第一步就是知苦。若没有深切感受到邪淫的危害和痛苦,甚至反而认为 邪淫是快乐的,那一切无从谈起。多数人是亲身受了邪淫的苦害后,确实想回头了。但也有一些福德慧根深厚者,自己虽然没有犯邪淫,但从经典中和别人的经历 中,一见便知邪淫之害。此是人中良马,不可多得。
   二、知苦之后要立志。没有强烈的志愿,随波逐流,“顺其自然”,不可能成功。立志有各种起因:或者是吃苦吃够了,或者是要报父母恩,或者为了成就学业, 或者为了现生富贵,或者为了平安,或者为了如意眷属,或者为了得生天界,或者为了助修佛法,或者是为了节省精力救度众生……或一或二或多,种种不同。可以 自己问自己,是否想戒,为何要戒,反复想明白了,决心定了,就成功了一半。
   三、明理。切实了解邪淫的危害和不邪淫的福德果报,才能坚定信心。《寿康宝鉴》、《欲海回狂》等书籍就是明理的助手,值得反复阅读。后学在校订这些书 时,受益匪浅,深有体会。更详细的,可以参见戒邪淫网上的佛言祖语和格言开示等栏目的内容。在明理中,知道欲望只是一种习气,不是本能,很重要。如果按西 方一些观念说淫欲是本能,那么本能与我同体,如何对治?戒除就成了压抑,结果只有宣泄一途。这就是根本原理的错谬,导致实践方法上的偏邪。佛法则指明欲望 只是一种习气,那么习气则是可以转变和消除的。明白了邪淫是敌非我这一点,下手戒除就没有什么好客气的了。最后,还要全面地看问题,既要明白邪淫的习气是 非常厚重的,一定会有反复,不能掉以轻心,又要知道自性力和佛力真实不可思议,一定能转变这种虚妄的习惯。
   四、制定切实可行的方案。立志好比定了方向,明理好比明了路途,方案就是出行计划。如何远离和断除容易诱发习气的邪缘?逐步培养定力的日课安排哪些内 容?如何积功累德、将功补过(邪淫习气重,是邪淫的业造的多。如果不积极将功补过,在断邪淫的道路上会事倍功半。大致方法是对治性地做一些戒邪淫方面的事 情,比如随缘劝诫、写文章、编辑助印传布这方面的书刊,宣传戒邪淫方面的网站等等,可自选其便)?凡事预则立,如不认真制定方案,志愿很可能落空。在订方 案中,一方面要认真分析自己的长处和短处,一方面要善于学习他人的经验教训。他人的经验教训可以在戒邪淫网里的经验体会文章中,加以总结。在开始阶段,方 案不必过求完美,可以在实践中逐步修订,增强实效。
   五、要善于借助外力。戒邪淫誓言中有两句话,自力微弱,佛力堪凭,单修多退,互助有功。古人说,独学无友则孤陋寡闻。有些人以借助外力为耻辱,这是不全 面的。完全依赖别人固然不可取,但一点不肯靠人也是不现实的。人生在世,衣食住行、学习工作,哪一件不借助他人之力?何必一说修养,就耻谈他力呢?就算是 最崇尚自力的禅宗,也离不开善知识的指点印证(他力),何况断邪淫习气?这里借外力,人人不同。你可以借助自己所信仰的宗教的力量。当然,信不信佛法的都 可以试试借助佛菩萨的力量,念念佛号或读诵佛经看有没有效果。再者,要常与善友交流。人都有奋发之志,但如果没有善缘护持,半途而废的很多很多。所以,常 把善书阅读,善与善人交流,都是借他力自我熏习的好方法。
  六、善于调整心态,防止偏差。志气要刚,心态要稳。急于求成是一忌;出现反复和失败就灰心是一忌;初有成效过于欢喜,甚至觉得自己可以入魔界历练一番,更是大忌。准备好持久战,从粗重的邪淫到较轻的意淫,突破一关是一关。
   七、初步成就的迹象。有些网友问,到底有没有戒邪淫成功的?戒邪淫成功是什么样子的?如果说彻底戒邪淫成功,那已经成圣人了,暂且不谈。只说戒体有初步 成就之象的,根据后学四五年来对一些网友的观察,是不少的。怎样算是戒体初步成就了呢?主要体现在:1.平时不思念邪淫之事;2.无意中邪缘邪境现前时, 马上警觉和远离(这是戒体的自动作用);3.若邪念种子被触发并有持续之状态时,马上能想起邪淫的种种危害或自己以前吃过的苦头,并能以掌握的种种对治方 法熄灭邪念。到了这个阶段,确实很不容易,但也会产生一些问题。比如有些邪淫习气浅的不需要如上种种曲折努力,就有如上戒体,此是宿世根深。但这里面有个 别人可能会认为,邪淫也没什么呀,我不搭理它,它也就无可奈何了,甚至写文章让初步戒邪淫者不要太刻意对治。不理睬邪淫习气,此见甚高,但没到一定程度, 你不理睬它,它来找你麻烦。初学者若没有对治方法,必然束手就擒。还有的初步有了这样的成绩,就开始大意,认为可以刀枪入库马放南山了。这样很危险。须知 现在的邪淫之缘很多,而我们的内心邪淫之种也无量,一旦遇到一些特别强的邪淫之缘激发了较重的邪淫之种,又加上警戒已丧失,后果实在不堪设想。所以不但不 能松懈,还要更进一步,全面提高戒定慧之力,如果能加上净土修行,那么必然一生不退,永不再受邪淫之苦。共勉。
  (作者为商丘市寿康文化研究学会自制力课题组成员)

陈大惠 ChenDahui

陈大惠 ChenDahui saved a lot of people, he is the good model for ready changing people' life. 陈大惠是央视著名主持人曾任《东方之子》、《经济半小时》、《对话》等栏目前 主持人,是一位资深制片人。 《纽约时报》、《时代周刊》曾两次对他提出采访的邀请。后来陈大惠为了推动和传播中国传统文化,休假做义工已经3年。2006年至2008年主持完成了大 型公益访谈类节目《和谐拯救危机》,在社会上引起巨大反响。
  陈大惠是一个智慧的人,这种智慧体现在他独特的思考和卓尔不群的品位,同时他没有因为智慧的天份成为一个专注捷径的投机分子,而是一直稳健勤奋地坚定着自己前进的步伐。在他的骨子里有一种桀骜的本性,这让他能够时刻让自己的思考更加敏锐和成熟。
  有人曾这样评价“无论从哪个角度来讲,陈大惠在央视所有频道所有栏目的主持人中,地位无人能撼动。”
  陈大惠制作的《为什么不能吃它们》系列节目,荣获2003年中国非官方环保最高奖 福特汽车环保奖。
  《纽约时报》、《时代周刊》曾两次对他提出采访的邀请。后来陈大惠为了推动和传播中国传统文化,休假做义工已经6年。2006年至2008年主持完成了大型公益访谈类节目《和谐拯救危机》,在社会上引起巨大反响。
ChenDahui is a famous compere of CCTV. The TV program he once presided include: 《Eastar》《Half-Hour Economy》《Dialogue》. He was also an experienced TV producer.《New York Times》and《Times》has invite him to have an interview twice. In order to promote and propagate Traditional Chinese Culture, he took a rest from his work later and devoted himself to be a volunteer for 6 years. He accomplished a large-scale public interview program –《Harmony Save the Crisis》, which aroused a big hit in the public.
ChenDahui is a wise man, reflected in his unique thought and taste. He didn’t become a shortcut speculator because of his talent; instead he was stick to go forward with his never-changing diligence. With an indomitable nature, he could make his thought more acute and mature.
Some people reckoned that: “As a compere, the place of ChenDahui’s program in the channel of CCTV cannot be shook by anyone from any perspective.”
The serial program《Why Can’t We Eat Them?》was awarded the highest China unofficial environmental price—2003 Ford Environmental Price.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Get rid of greed

Today My blog topic is Get rid of greed. Today I tell myself I have to stop buying stocks, I have to stop buying 4D, TOTO, I have to stop going casino forever. Why I suddenly have the thought of changing one of my bad habits-gaming. I decide not to gamer any more. Because I realize that greed can not make me happy. Because I realize that greed will only be enhanced further. Because I realize that greedy mindset is the abnormal mindset, it can not lead to peaceful mind. Why I suddenly have this thought, it is because I watch videos about Traditional value. It is so important to be the normal human. We need to learn correct values in this life time. I am now stopping to listen bad music, stop to read news from newspapers, stop to watch stimulating video, movies. I stop to write articles about Malaysia election although my blog title is Malaysia election. Because I have to spend my time wisely. I have to start loving myself by doing all the good deeds. I have to get rid of wrong mindset of selfishness. From today onwards, I will only write positive one. I will slowly delete or amend all my previous blog posts that contain negative one. Yes, I can, Namoamitofo.