Good prison officers

I have read the report about the prisoners' rehabilitation process in Hanan, China.
The head of the Hanan prison department was the rare caring officer. One day, he had the deep thought why the same prisoners always in and out the prison several times. He had asked one prisoner why? That prisoner said:" I come here because I was arrested by policemen. I am just not lucky enough." It seems that most of the repeated prisoners still never change their behaviour and bad habits.
One day, the teacher told the head of the prison department that there was the institute in Mainland China teaching the student guide, the teaching might be able to change the prisoners' mindset.
The head went for the course for few days and found that the course was ready useful. Then the head sent all the prison warden and workers for that course.
After attending this course, all the prison officers became so caring. These prison officers apologised to all the prisoners that they never took care them well in the past. The prisoners all felt touched because of respect given by prison officers.
Because of the love given by the prison workers, the prisoners have changed a lot. later, the volunteer teacher came to the prison to teach these prisoners the right values in life.
The prison department show respect to all prisoners and do their best to instill good values and help prisoners' families financially as well.
Because of the love and teaching, most of the prisoners were touched and better better people.
My view: Prison officers should ready take care and love prisoners. Prison officers should show good examples themselves.
Only " love " can change them.

Good doctor

The medical advancement is developed greatly but many people seem like not healthy in this century. This shows that human beings facing lots of health hazard. Sometimes what we get the information about the health matters not necessarily be true.
Student guide say:" A truly virtuous person is greatly respected by others. He will not be afraid to speak the truth and he will not fawn on others."
Mr. Pang is such a good doctor. He is sharing his experiences about the health issues. He highlighted some critical medical problems as follow:
Nowadays, if we turn on television, we can see some advertisement showing half-naked photos or video. Many television programs talking about husband/wife having lovers and many sex-related issues with exposed photos or video. When we go to the shopping centres, we can see all types of advertisements showing ladies with improper dress. If we surf Internet, so many unhealthy site can lead children to the dangerous zones if they never cautious. Even the medical book also spreading that masturbation is not harmful to body.
All these confusing women/men relationship and discussion only bring harm to people and children. It seriously pollute children's mind and lead them to the dangerous path.
One of the Asia country has 1 million young people who can not work and become the useless people because of the bad influence-corrupted foreign culture.
Do these young generation have the bright future?
I will continue this in my next post.

Darkness and brightness

I have read so many real stories on books and DVD. I have seen so many people those who were so bad in the past but they had been changed to the good people. They graually given up all their bad habits. Besides that, they started reminding or teaching other people to do all the good deeds because they did not want other people following their past journey of darkness.
I am so happy to see many people shared their journey of turning bad habits to good habits.
Some people doing bad because their parents or teachers never taught them or did not know how to coach them in the past.
Some people mixed around with bad people and followed them doing all kinds of bad things.
For those bad people who had changed to the better people, they had the new mission. They had the conscenice and they started spreading the goodness. These people are commendable.
If you have bad habits, you wouldn't change unless you understand the need to do it. But if you understand, you can change. You should graually change it.
I always receive some good quotes from bloggers, readers, friends. Now I like to share with you the quotes sent by Miss timethief

Message as follows:
It's good to meet you and visit your blog as well. I'd like to share a quote with you that I find to be very empowering.
It doesn't matter how long we may have been stuck in a sense of our limitations. If we go into a darkened room and turn on the light, it doesn't matter if the room has been dark for a day, a week, or ten thousand years - we turn on the light and it is illuminated. Once we control our capacity for love and happiness, the light has been turned on. -- Sharon Salzberg
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My friends, whatever action we do, it will surely has the outcome.
If you do good, you will have good outcome.
If you do bad, you will have bad outcome.
This is the law of nature and is 100% true because the nature is totally fair and square and what we get is because of our own action.

Harmony starts from me

If you want to have truly peaceful life, then we should

Lead the children but not controling them

Chinese lunar new year is around the corner. I wish all of you have the prosperous new year2010.
I like to share with you how the good teacher giving unconditional love.
Mr.Ong is the teacher with true compassion.He shows the very good examples to his students. As the teacher, he behaves like the teacher.
He knows very well that this is his responsibility to educate children well. He leads the students towards the path of brightness. He not only teach them the knowledge but also how to be the moral people so that they know what is wrong and right. He is leading them but not controlling them.
In year 2006, for some reasons he had the chance to attend the seminar about the traditional values and also learning the student guide. He was so happy because he now knew how to train his students to be the good students, good sons, good daughters.
The student guide provides Mr.Ong the ample knowledge so that he can learn and show live example to his students.
Today, I like to give you how Mr.Ong turns the criticising session into discussion.
One day, two primary students were fighting outside the classroom, a student quickly reported it to Mr.Ong. Mr.Ong arrived the site and observed that it was the small fighting and argument. Luckily both students were not injured. In order to let students understand and change the bad habit, he turned criticising them into discussion session. This self education ready worked well.
Mr.Ong led the two students to the classroom and let them voiced out whatever inside their mind. Mr.Ong listened to them attentively but he never scolded or canned them. After they voiced out what they had inside their mind, other students started talking.
At this moment, Mr.Ong asked both of them to analyze their faults. They took turn said:" If I never do that. we both wouldn't fight with each others."
After that, Mr.Ong told all students to take out the student guide from their bags. Mr.Ong told them to check which faults they were committing.
Wow, students were so focus and looked through the student guide. A student raised up his hand said:" I know, student guide's quote says-when siblings are careful with words and hold back hurtful comments, feelings of anger naturally die out."
The other student raised up her hand and said:" I know, student guide's quote says-when your body is hurt, your parents will be worried. If your virtues are compromised,your parents will feel ashamed."
One student said:" I know, student guide say-siblings who keep harmonious relationships among themselves are being dutiful to their parents."
My friends, through these discussion all students learn to treat each others like brothers and sisters. The Harmony surely will bring smile to the teachers. The students are treating teachers as their parents as well.
Mr.Ong had done the good job. Since then no fighting happened in that class.
My friends, if we are teacher, then we should be like Mr.Ong, caring ,loving. I think if every teacher like Mr.Ong, our students will be blessed. If we never lead them properly, one day these students will blame you for not teaching, guiding them.
Wow, Mr.Ong is ready the good teacher and I believe all students under him will appreciate his love forever. I salute Mr.Ong and all teacher like him.

Let go all your anger

Life is ready precious and we should treasure it. I had been written blogs for two years and my passion for writing motivation blog still exist.
Recently I have read many articles about anger how can affect one's life. I will share it out in my next posts.
My friends, everyday you might encounter something that annoy you. Somethings that worry you and you feel so stressful. Perhaps you can handle it quite well and keep all your worries inside your heart.
My friends, even your worries kept inside your heart or mind, your health will be greatly affected.
How to solve all these problems, yes you can.
Please change your mindset now. Forget all people who had annoyed you in the past, forgive them wholeheartedly and unconditionally. For those you had annoyed them in the past, you should repent yourself wholeheartedly.
Do not keep any anger in your heart from now on, my friends, your life will be changed immediately.
You will discover that you will be more healthier and happier. Of course you will surely have more wisdom.
From my experience, I am greatly benefited from this and I would like to see all of you living happily.
From next post onwards, I will share with you the importance of having healthy mindset can lead you to the truly happy life.
How to have harmony in your family?
How important traditional values can bring you luck and free from misery?
Bad people also can be changed because we all have " goodness "? How to exploit it?
Many touching stories will be shared out soon.

Time management

Let's see the quote from the student guide. " When you realize that the time is passing you by and cannot be turned back, and that you are getting older year by year. you will especially treasure the present moment."
There is an old Chinese proverb: " A unit of time is as precious as a unit of gold, but you cannot buy back one unit of time with one unit of gold." It means that time is ready very precious, as no amount of money can buy time.
My friends, this was the reminder of ancient people. Looking back, did you spend your time wisely? Did you do something that can ready make you truly happy everyday? Think it over and create your new destiny if you still haven't done yet.
For me, I have the plans related to time management as follow:
Spend time wisely
I will concentrate on my full time job and will not spend anytime on chasing money on others because I want to spend more quality time on more important matters.
I will spend most of the time to improve myself in many areas like
building up the better relationship with others in the family, working places,etc.
Personally I will not spend time on watching or reading those television program/ newspaper that contain lots of colorful yet tempting materials because I do not want to be trapped.
I will do my best to help others whenever I can like giving seats to elderly, talk to those lonely old people, help others whenever I can.
I will fill up myself all positive elements and create the new destiny.

Happy journey

I always see the old man walking slowly in our neighbourhood. Today while I am back home from work, I see the old man sit on the bench, suddenly I am thinking one of the quotes from student guide.
The quote state that serve your uncles as if you are serving your parents. So, I come near him and greet him. He is so happy and our conversation lasted more than twenty minutes. This is the wonderful experience and I am going to make it the habit from now on.
He tell me that he is now 80 over years old and living in his son's house. Every day he needs to walk to maintain activeness. He tell me about his life and his family.
After twenty minutes, I tell him that I have to go home. He smilingly telling me to have the good rest. I feel like he talk to me as if I am his son.
My friends, it is so good to talk to the old people, the joy is beyond my imagination. Please try it if you have not done this before.
Yes, this is part of my happy journey in life.

Cautious in work

Most of us are employees, we all have to work cautiously so as we can work longer. There were few examples that some employees got disciplined because of neglecting something or treat many things trivial. They are thinking that doing such things will bear little or no consequence.

Happy new year to everyone

This is the very short post.
Just want to let your know that today is my happiest day because I have the good plan for this year.
I would like to wish all of you happy new year.
Bye bye........................................

Do not produce poison

Our planet covered by water, it is about 70%. Quite similarly, our body has over 70% is water. Can you imagine if the water in our body is polluted, surely we are not healthy.
Besides healthy mind, healthy body is very important to everyone of us.
According to the specialist's scientific experiment, water has reaction if it receive the message of goodness. The Crystal of water become beautiful.
The kid died immediately after his mom breast feeding. Did you know what was the cause of his death. It was because his mom quarreled with someone before breast feeding him. That milk had poison.
The other experiment show that the gas produced by the hot-tempered person. The gas from the mouth can kill the white rat because the gas contain poison.
So, anger can pollute your water in your body, your health will be affected greatly by anger. It is useless to exercise if you always angry.
That poison name anger is very dangerous for our life.
Anger like the fire which can burn ourselves as well as others. Anger make us lose the cool. Many conflicts, war, killing, stupid acts ,etc all because of anger.
Anger make our body weak as well. Please control our emotion properly so as we can live longer and healthier.
My friends, please do not produce poison in your own body.

Follow path

If you had studied Geography before, you will surely know there is nine planets in the universe. This nine planets follow their orbit, so that it can operate smoothly without any collision.
Imagine if the nine planets never follow the designated path, misery will follow definitely.
Just look at human, the situation almost the same.
Remember the milk incident in China last year. [Please refer to my previous post Life is precious http://coolingstar9.blogspot.com/2008/09/life-is-precious.html ]
This was because these businessmen never follow ' path ". Either they never learnt the moral education or simply ignored this. Their mindset were just making money and totally never taking care people' health.
So, the outcome was death sentence for some of them.
My view: If we want to prevent misery to us then we have only one choice-follow path or moral whenever we do.
This is my sincere reminder to people.

Side effect

Do you wonder the advancement of technology and economic development have some side effects? The side effects are as follow:
How come the divorce rate is always increasing?
How come more people having sickness like cancer, heart attack, high blood pressure, diabetic,etc?
How come more people committing crimes?
I think this is due to human mindset towards materialism.
They do not have proper eating habits.
Education fails to instill the right values?
There are few type of education like family education, school education,etc. If the family education, school education, society education all fail, then " End education " at prisons will be the last one. It is more difficult to change the person if he is in prison, but " End education " is still needed.
If family education, and school education can ready instill the right values then our next generation will be blessed.
This post is just for you to ponder. What go wrong?

Practise makes perfect

My dear friends, if you follow my posts closely, you will notice that I had been writing about the student guide from April 2009 to September 2009. Why I wrote so many topic about the student guide was because one of my friends told me to write some goodness. He handed over a book to me. I told myself no matter how I had to full fill his wish, so I spent the time to read and gave my ideas also.
I was so happy that I finally completed the work. I never expected that I was benefited a lot while writing about the student guide.
Now, I am going to share with you some story about those who had learned the student guide, the obstacles they faced.
Let's hear the story of Mr. Hu.
Mr. Hu wanted to have the meaningful and happy life, so he learnt the student guide. Basically, the student guide is the ethic lesson for small kids but it is good for adults who had no chance to learn the moral education in their childhood. For adults to learn the goodness, they need to fully comprehend all the contents fully and practise it in their daily life. Without practice, it is totally useless.
Mr. Hu started learning the student guide since year 2007, almost two and half years. He was sharing with us his learning experiences. He told us honestly that he had applied it wrongly in many areas but he corrected it from time to time. Now the learning of student guide had transformed him to the better person, better businessman. His relationship with family members, employees is improved greatly. Because of the joyfulness, he is now giving talks to businessmen, ordinary people the path of happy living as the " normal human ".
My friends, Mr. Hu is the person who previously living so miserable although he had earned lots of money. Now he is ready happy because he is the " normal human " now.
Note: Many people living so called the normal life, but what is normal life and abnormal life? Time to ponder this........What type of life you ready want?
See you soon, wishing all of you happy go lucky.
Smile more, life is full of freedom.

How to have caring heart?

Last post I talked about unselfishness could lead us to the path of wisdom. Of course Mr. Hu is living happily now. Recently he shared with us his experience on how he could get back the caring feeling towards his aging father who is 80 over years old.
Due to the very old age, his father can only read newspaper with the aid of magnifying Len. His father always has " tears " whenever he watches TV program for few hours because of the reflection of TVs screen.
This time Mr. Hu wanted to get back the caring feeling and attempted to find ways to help alleviate the pain that his father was facing due to eyes' problems.
Mr. Hu conducted the experiment, he put the black ink painted on the spare spectacle and then put some powder. After that, he put two level of ink, red and blue. Ha ha, Mr.Hu wear this spectacle and can not see anything. This is exactly what his father's situation. Now, Mr. Hu had the compassionate feeling towards his father.
Mr. Hu discussed the problems with his younger son who is 9 years old. His son said that we needed to always visit grandfather to make him happy.
The conversation was as follow:
The younger son talked to his father:" You have told us before, if grandfather feel happy, his health will be better."
Mr. Hu:" Son, what should we do?"
Young son:" Grandfather likes to read newspaper, you should buy the newspaper with bigger wording."
Mr. Hu then decided to order the newspaper with big wording although the price is little bit higher. Mr. Hu's father was so happy and touched and always told friends that his son is now the person who ready carry out the advice from the student guide.
This story tell us that we need to have the feeling towards people first. Then we should know what he likes and dislike. After that, we do our best to full fill their wishes.
When we put down selfishness, our love towards others then can flowing out. Mr. Hu reminds us that just a little bit of clean heart, our hidden wisdom can be triggered out.
The more stories in the next posts. Have the nice day.

How to be the happy person?

How to be the happy person? How to be the person of wisdom? Let's discuss it now.
There was the businessman Mr. Hu who always feel unhappy in life although he had earned lots of money.
One day, a man recommended him to read the student guide for being the good man. After learning it, the outcome was that many people still like to avoid him. He was wondering why? The student guide teacher explained to him because he had no wisdom due to the following reasons:
1.chasing for fame 2. care for own interests only
3. talk people' wrongdoings
4. greed and hatred.
The teacher told him:" As long as you have selfishness in your heart, you will not be the person of wisdom. That means you have to free from all these in order to have clean heart. Without clean heart, you will continue to have the conflict with people, unable to get along with people, so this is the time for you to examine yourself. You ought to put down " selfishness ", then you will be able to have clean heart. After that your wisdom will appear and you will be able to solve lots of problems in life. It will bring back the concept of " love " in your heart. you will definitely taste the joyfulness after helping others."
My friends, can Mr. Hu become the happier person, I will tell you in the next post. You are welcome to contribute your ideas. I sincerely wish all of you have the happier life.

True happiness

Everybody like to have happy life, am I right? We must be able to create peaceful environment at home.
Firstly, respecting and caring our parents is the key point to true happiness. It is because parents and their kids have the very close relationship. We need to appreciate the love given by our parents. Without that feeling towards parents, how can we truly love our brothers, sisters, friends or our country.
If we can love our parents, then we can further learning how to love our brothers, sisters. After that, we then be able to extend the love to friends, nation and the whole world.
So, true happiness can only be established if you can care your parents, this is the starting point. Let's together to have the happy family. Every individual can do that, the whole society will become healthy.
This is the important element-love your parents first.
Have the nice journey, my friends. I will share with you some story about this issue on my next post.