Gracious society

In order to have more gracious society, everybody should play the part. Through participation, our society will move towards the path of goodness.
Today, while waiting bus at the bus stop, I see the poster in the notice board quite interesting. It is my pleasure to share it out.
This is the good reminder because human tend to forget goodness.
Graciousness is showing your consideration for others by not eating and drinking inside the bus.
Allowing others to board by moving to the rear of the bus.
Keeping the environment clean by not littering inside the bus.
Caring for others by giving up your seats to those who need it more, giving a helping hand to someone in need.
Showing appreciation by saying thank you to someone who brighten your day.
My note:
Wow, you see, we can do so many good deeds within the bus.
If you want true happiness, then we should do it sincerely in the bus. Surely you will brighten someone the whole day.

Respect to elders

Let's study the student guide to be better person. Let's start at home, do our part to create better relationship.
Chapter 2: Standards for a younger brother when away from home.
Part 2
In front of an elder, do not show off.
If you meet an elder you know on the streets, promptly greet him. If he does not speak to you, step back and respectfully stand aside.
If you are riding in a car, horse, carriage, you should stop, get out and ask if you can give him a ride.
If you meet an elder passing by, you should stand aside and wait respectfully; do not leave until you can no longer see him.
When an elder is standing, do not sit. After an elder sits down, sit only when you are told to do so.
Before an elder, speak softly. But if your voice is too low and hard to hear, it is not appropriate.
When meeting an elder, walk briskly towards him, when leaving, do not exit in haste.
When answering a question, look at the person who is asking you the question.
Serve your uncles as if you are serving your parents;
Treat your cousins as if they are your siblings.
My view:
From young, we need to respect elders. It help us to get along well with others in the society. Knowing all these will benefit us the whole life.

Stable mind

Anger is very bad for our bodies. The angry person looks ugly because his face turns pale, green or other colors. If he always angry, then he likely has many sickness. The expression [ pale, green ] shows that this person has something wrong in one or more organs.
When we are angry, our blood pressure increased and we have unstable mind at that moment. This type of angry feeling can last for long hours and affect the livelihood.
Do you know what make a person angry?
Do you know anger can lead to more trauma in life?
It is very important to control the emotion better.
Let's move towards the more quality life.
What is your thinking?
Since many readers want to have meaningful life and become better person. We should gradually let go all bad habits. We must be realistic and do not expect that we can become the very good person overnight.
As we all know that when we want to do good deeds, always have something crop up.These are the tests to let us khow how well we manage.
Face it and do our best, we should stand up again and again despite setback.
First, you must have full confidence on the belief and do things that you supposed to do.Let's go all the things needed to be let go.
What is your thinking?
See you soon.
Life is great, do good deeds, do our part and just give it out and do not expect anythings in return.

Humble

The more we share, the more we learn. We need to correct our mistakes daily so that we can have more quality life.
Today, I like to talk about humble. I believe this is the important ingredient in our lives.
We should not do these, for examples:
A person who has strong, beautiful and healthy body who looks down those who are weak, ugly.
A person who is young but never show respect , look down old people.
A person who was born in rich family, boasting about his wealth, properties.
A person who had received higher education and boasting about his knowledge.
All these mistakes should be corrected because " humble " is the key to your happiness.
Let's gradually correct our own mistakes.
Please enjoy your day, bye bye.
See you soon.

Sincere love

On my last post: harmony, Faisal Admar said that he didn't have much problem with his siblings. they respect each other and love each other so much since they were kids.
Glad to know that Faisal Admar don't have much problem with his siblings since kids.
Faisal ask : 1.Do you think marriage is for making kids and hope that they will take care of you when you are old? do you really believe in that?
My thinking:
Traditionally, marriage is for making kids and kids need to take care. However this type of concept has been changed and now we have to prepare ourselves for the old age.
2. Faisal has made some survey and ask: Do you know that most of the kids nowadays live far away from their parent? end up parent still alone.
My thinking:
Yes, the trend is that kids live far away.I hope kids can stay near parents or stay together.

Ancient China

I have just read an article about education in ancient China. I would like to share it with all of you.
As you know, China has 5000 years of history and produced many saints in the past. Now, many people are interested in learning its culture and many institution worldwide have offered courses in Chinese studies, Confucius teaching, etc.
In ancient China, children went to primary school at the age of 7. Teachers are totally responsible for students, parents had the full trust on teachers.
Teachers taught children how to respect parents, how to get along with sibling. They memorized the few books over and over again before the age of 13. They needed not required to understand the meaning of the contents at all before the age of 13.
From age 7 to age 12, teachers concentrated their character development, so that they had the solid foundation to handle all the challenges in the future.
At the age of 13, teachers always brought them out for tour. Teachers started to teach them the few books. Students needed not bring books because they had already memorized it before the age of 13.
I think this type of teaching was ready fun, what do you think?
That's all for today. Please enjoy reading and smile for one minutes. No, how about smile for 2 minutes and more.

Happy blogging

Blogging can be really an enjoyable hobby. I have received awards from many blogger.
If someone gave me an award, what it means? It means that he or she gave me love. Once I received the love, it is very nice to pass the love[ award ] to many blogger to create the friendly blog sphere.
We are all live in the same planet, through blogging, we can play a part to have better understanding on many topics. I can feel their anxieties, agonies, life experiences, etc.
Many want to have more meaningful life. For me, I love to discuss ways to live happily.It is because our life are so precious and we need to really enjoy it including blogging, work, etc.
Wish all of you happy blogging.

Blog award for all of you

This is the blogging award given by one of my greatest blogging friend:
nisha , I would like to give it to all of you, everybody regardless who you are.

" WHY I LOVE BLOGGING?"

Blogging gives me happiness. I can write anything I like to write. Blogging gives me more knowledge in different areas. I can interact with fellow blogger globally. We can motivate each others through few encouraging words or comments. I simply like beyond words.

Here are the rules for this meaningful award:

The aims of this award:* As a dedication for those who love blogging activity and love to encourage friendships through blogging.*

To seek the reasons why we all love blogging!*

Put the award in one post as soon as you receive it*

Don’t forget to mention the person who gives you the award.*

Answer the award’s question by writing the reason why you love blogging.*

Tag and distribute the award to as many people as you like.*

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Please take the award as long as you have visited this site before.

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Harmony

Let's study the student guide to be better person. Let's start at home, do our part to create better relationship.
Chapter 2: Standards for a younger brother when away from home.
Part 1
Older siblings should befriend the younger ones, younger siblings should respect and love the older ones.
Siblings who keep harmonious relationships among themselves are being dutiful to their parents.
When siblings value their ties more than property and belongings, no resentment will grow among them.
When siblings are careful with words and hold back hurtful comments, feelings of anger naturally die out.
Whether you are drinking, eating, walking, or sitting, let the elders go first, younger ones should follow.
When an elder is asking for someone, get that person for him right away. If you cannot find that person, immediately report back, and put yourself at the elder's service instead.
When you address an elder, call him properly in accord with present etiquette.
My view:
At home, brothers and sisters should help each others. Parents will feel happy when they see their children can get along well, this is also considered dutiful to their parents. We should love them even they do not have any property. We should mindful of our words.
The student guide also acts as a reminder to all people not only small kids.

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Gratitude

Part 6:
When your parents are ill, taste the medicine first [ Refer to herbal medicine, herbs are boiled with water, a child should taste it first to make sure it is not too hot or too bitter ] before giving it to them.
Take care of them night and day; do not leave their bedside.
During the first three years of mourning after they passed away, remember them with gratitude and feel sad often for not being able to repay them for their kindness in raising you.
During this period you should arrange your home to reflect your grief and sorrow, avoid festivities and indulgence in food and alcoholic drinks.
Observe the proper etiquette in arranging their funerals, hold the memorial ceremony and commemorate their anniversaries with your utmost sincerity.
Serve your departed parents as if they were alive.
My view:
Take good care of parents when they are ill. To show your gratitude, proper funeral to be made after they passed away. We need to behave well even parents no longer around.
--Chapter 1 Student guide ended--

Help parents

Part 5:
When your parents do wrong, urge them to change.
Do it with a kind facial expression and a warm gentle voice.
If they do not accept your advice, wait until they are in a happier mood before you dissuade them again, followed by crying [ crying may not suitable nowadays ]to make them understand why,
If they end up whipping you, do not hold a grudge against them.
My view:
Try our very best to correct their mistakes.

Give joy to parents

Dear readers, Let us study the student guide.
Chapter 1: At home, be dutiful to your parents.
Part 4:
If whatever pleases your parents is fair and reasonable, try your best to get it for them.
Should something displease your parents, if within reason, cautiously keep it away from them.
When your body is hurt, your parents will be worried.
If your virtues are compromised, your parents will feel ashamed.
When you have loving parents, it is not difficult to be a dutiful child.
But if you are still dutiful to parents who hate you, only then will it meet the standards of the saints and sages for being a dutiful child.
My view:
Do things to give joy to parents. Be a dutiful even parents scold us.

Be a good child

Dear readers, Let us study the student guide. Chapter 1: At home, be dutiful to your parents. Part 3:
Have a permanent place to stay and lead a routine life.
Persist in whatever you do and do not change your aspirations at will.
Although a matter may be considered trivial, but if it is wrong to do it or unfair to the other person, do not do it thinking it will bear little or no consequence.
If you do, you are not being a dutiful child because parents do not want to see their child doing things that are irrational or illegal.
Even though an object may be small, do not hoard it.
If you do, your parents will be heartbroken.
My view:
Be a good child, study hard and having good habits.

Take good care of parents

Dear readers,
Let us study the student guide.
Chapter 1: At home, be dutiful to your parents.
Part 2:
In the winter, keep your parents warm,
In the summer, keep your parents cool.
Greet them in the morning to show them that you care,
At night be sure that they rest well.
Before going out, tell your parents where you are going, as parents are always concerned about their children.
After returning home, see your parents to let them you are back, so parents do not worry about you.
My view:
We need to give our love to parents with sincerity. We do things that do not let them worry. In other words, we should do our very best to give joy to parents. If we can do that, then we should further extend the care to others.
Let's start at home first. see you soon.

Mother's love

Today is April fool's day, actually I want to write a joke to make all of you have the good laugh because I simply want to bring joy to all of you.
Suddenly I think of mother and I would like to talk about mother's love.
I could sense it that my mother love me very much. When I was sick, she used her hands to touch my head. When my legs itch, she helped me by rubbing my legs. I felt warm for her caring. When I went out for work, I could see her eyes-fill of selfless love.
My friends, if you are mother, surely you want your kids to be better off. You want you kids to have better life than you. Do you agree?
I wish all of you can have the spirit of mother. Please extend this kind of love to people surround you.
For example, If someone better than you, you should be happy, treat him or her like you kids.

Good values

I have just read a book, student guide. I find it ready interesting and like to share it with you.
Chapter 1: At home, be dutiful to your parents.
Part 1:
When your parents call you, answer them right away.
When parents command you to do something, do it quickly.
When parents instruct you, listen respectfully.
When your parents reproach you, obey and accept their scolding, try hard to change and improve yourself and start anew.
My view:
We have to instill good values to those who are young. They should learn how to respect parents.

Good sleep

This week I have good sleep everyday. I will tell you why?
Do you have the good sleep everyday?

Bring joy to others

Gaming is a bad habit that we should not be addicted on it because it will make us greedy and greedy.
Every time when I pass by some shopping centres, I can see so many people queue up buying 4D, Toto numbers.
Honestly speaking, Many years ago, one day I happened to read newspaper, I saw my passport number strike 4D first prize. At that time I thought " Luck " might be coming to me soon.
The next day I bought the 4D ticket [ my house nos ], I spent just $1 only purely for fun.
Wow, I could not believe it, I ready strike and won $250 starter prize.
I bought some food to my workmates, I gave some money to the needy at that time. They felt so joyful. I realized that treating others are really joyful things to do. Did I buy anymore?
After that I never buy anymore because I realized that it can make one " greedy "
Greed is one of the roots of our worries. Do you agree?

Free from stress

Last post, we discussed about meaningful life. Many blogger had contributed lots of valuable ideas about meaningful life. In short, we must have positive attitudes towards life. We must treasure every minutes and bravely face and overcome all the difficulties in life.
It is ready sad to know that some bright students do not know how to handle stress in their lives? Some bright students even committed suicide while having lots of stress. why?
Let's think about these, I will talk about in my next post.
Stress-free life, yes, we can.