Friday, April 10, 2009

Harmony

Let's study the student guide to be better person. Let's start at home, do our part to create better relationship.
Chapter 2: Standards for a younger brother when away from home.
Part 1
Older siblings should befriend the younger ones, younger siblings should respect and love the older ones.
Siblings who keep harmonious relationships among themselves are being dutiful to their parents.
When siblings value their ties more than property and belongings, no resentment will grow among them.
When siblings are careful with words and hold back hurtful comments, feelings of anger naturally die out.
Whether you are drinking, eating, walking, or sitting, let the elders go first, younger ones should follow.
When an elder is asking for someone, get that person for him right away. If you cannot find that person, immediately report back, and put yourself at the elder's service instead.
When you address an elder, call him properly in accord with present etiquette.
My view:
At home, brothers and sisters should help each others. Parents will feel happy when they see their children can get along well, this is also considered dutiful to their parents. We should love them even they do not have any property. We should mindful of our words.
The student guide also acts as a reminder to all people not only small kids.

10 comments:

bluedreamer27 said...

oh to be honest i once used my position as the eldest among my siblings, i took advantage to it and i really felt so guilty at the end
so a lesson was learned with that and i promise my self never to do it again
thanks for sharing this wonderful virtue of life coolingstar
just wanna drop by here also to greet you a Happy Easter!!!

Our Love Story said...

hi there coolingstar... thanks for the tag! hope to be back soon in blogging... for now, i need a long rest... the past days were so heavy and traumatic... take care and i will miss u!

love,
jen

Our Love Story said...

hi there coolingstar... thanks for the tag! hope to be back soon in blogging... for now, i need a long rest... the past days were so heavy and traumatic... take care and i will miss u!

love,
jen

coolingstar9 said...

bluedreamer27,
You once used your position as the eldest among your siblings, you took advantage to it and you really felt so guilty at the end.
You promise yourself never to do it again.
That really good news.
Happy Easter!!!

coolingstar9 said...

Our Love Story,
Wish you have the good rest.
Be positive in whatever you do.
I really miss you, jen.

Beth said...

hey coolingstar... it is a shame that siblings don't learn this until they are big and moving on with life. I realize how poorly I treated my big brothers only after they move away from home for different reasons.

Faisal Admar said...

i don't have much problem with my siblings. they respect each other and love each other so much... since we were kids.

since you touch about family topic... now something arise in my mind.

do you think marriage is for making kids and hope that they will take care of you when you are old? do you really believe in that?
i have made some survey and do you know that most of the kids nowadays live far away from their parent? end up parent still alone...

bluedreamer27 said...

yeah hehe
have a great day and happy blogging

coolingstar9 said...

Beth,
It is good to learn how to treat sibling when they are young.
Parents and teaohers ought to play their part. It is time to learn so that next generation can lead the " normal life ".
Beth, it is good to realize sooner than later.
We can do it.

coolingstar9 said...

Faisal Admar,
Glad to know that you don't have much problem with your siblings since kids.
1.Do you think marriage is for making kids and hope that they will take care of you when you are old? do you really believe in that?
My thinking: Traditionally, marriage is for making kids and kids need to take care. However this type of concept has been changed and now we have to prepare ourselves for the old age.
2. you have made some survey and ask: Do you know that most of the kids nowadays live far away from their parent? end up parent still alone...
My thinking: Yes, the trend is that kids live far away.
I hope kids can stay near parents or stay together.
Happy blogging