Lead the children but not controling them

Chinese lunar new year is around the corner. I wish all of you have the prosperous new year2010.
I like to share with you how the good teacher giving unconditional love.
Mr.Ong is the teacher with true compassion.He shows the very good examples to his students. As the teacher, he behaves like the teacher.
He knows very well that this is his responsibility to educate children well. He leads the students towards the path of brightness. He not only teach them the knowledge but also how to be the moral people so that they know what is wrong and right. He is leading them but not controlling them.
In year 2006, for some reasons he had the chance to attend the seminar about the traditional values and also learning the student guide. He was so happy because he now knew how to train his students to be the good students, good sons, good daughters.
The student guide provides Mr.Ong the ample knowledge so that he can learn and show live example to his students.
Today, I like to give you how Mr.Ong turns the criticising session into discussion.
One day, two primary students were fighting outside the classroom, a student quickly reported it to Mr.Ong. Mr.Ong arrived the site and observed that it was the small fighting and argument. Luckily both students were not injured. In order to let students understand and change the bad habit, he turned criticising them into discussion session. This self education ready worked well.
Mr.Ong led the two students to the classroom and let them voiced out whatever inside their mind. Mr.Ong listened to them attentively but he never scolded or canned them. After they voiced out what they had inside their mind, other students started talking.
At this moment, Mr.Ong asked both of them to analyze their faults. They took turn said:" If I never do that. we both wouldn't fight with each others."
After that, Mr.Ong told all students to take out the student guide from their bags. Mr.Ong told them to check which faults they were committing.
Wow, students were so focus and looked through the student guide. A student raised up his hand said:" I know, student guide's quote says-when siblings are careful with words and hold back hurtful comments, feelings of anger naturally die out."
The other student raised up her hand and said:" I know, student guide's quote says-when your body is hurt, your parents will be worried. If your virtues are compromised,your parents will feel ashamed."
One student said:" I know, student guide say-siblings who keep harmonious relationships among themselves are being dutiful to their parents."
My friends, through these discussion all students learn to treat each others like brothers and sisters. The Harmony surely will bring smile to the teachers. The students are treating teachers as their parents as well.
Mr.Ong had done the good job. Since then no fighting happened in that class.
My friends, if we are teacher, then we should be like Mr.Ong, caring ,loving. I think if every teacher like Mr.Ong, our students will be blessed. If we never lead them properly, one day these students will blame you for not teaching, guiding them.
Wow, Mr.Ong is ready the good teacher and I believe all students under him will appreciate his love forever. I salute Mr.Ong and all teacher like him.

Let go all your anger

Life is ready precious and we should treasure it. I had been written blogs for two years and my passion for writing motivation blog still exist.
Recently I have read many articles about anger how can affect one's life. I will share it out in my next posts.
My friends, everyday you might encounter something that annoy you. Somethings that worry you and you feel so stressful. Perhaps you can handle it quite well and keep all your worries inside your heart.
My friends, even your worries kept inside your heart or mind, your health will be greatly affected.
How to solve all these problems, yes you can.
Please change your mindset now. Forget all people who had annoyed you in the past, forgive them wholeheartedly and unconditionally. For those you had annoyed them in the past, you should repent yourself wholeheartedly.
Do not keep any anger in your heart from now on, my friends, your life will be changed immediately.
You will discover that you will be more healthier and happier. Of course you will surely have more wisdom.
From my experience, I am greatly benefited from this and I would like to see all of you living happily.
From next post onwards, I will share with you the importance of having healthy mindset can lead you to the truly happy life.
How to have harmony in your family?
How important traditional values can bring you luck and free from misery?
Bad people also can be changed because we all have " goodness "? How to exploit it?
Many touching stories will be shared out soon.

Time management

Let's see the quote from the student guide. " When you realize that the time is passing you by and cannot be turned back, and that you are getting older year by year. you will especially treasure the present moment."
There is an old Chinese proverb: " A unit of time is as precious as a unit of gold, but you cannot buy back one unit of time with one unit of gold." It means that time is ready very precious, as no amount of money can buy time.
My friends, this was the reminder of ancient people. Looking back, did you spend your time wisely? Did you do something that can ready make you truly happy everyday? Think it over and create your new destiny if you still haven't done yet.
For me, I have the plans related to time management as follow:
Spend time wisely
I will concentrate on my full time job and will not spend anytime on chasing money on others because I want to spend more quality time on more important matters.
I will spend most of the time to improve myself in many areas like
building up the better relationship with others in the family, working places,etc.
Personally I will not spend time on watching or reading those television program/ newspaper that contain lots of colorful yet tempting materials because I do not want to be trapped.
I will do my best to help others whenever I can like giving seats to elderly, talk to those lonely old people, help others whenever I can.
I will fill up myself all positive elements and create the new destiny.

Happy journey

I always see the old man walking slowly in our neighbourhood. Today while I am back home from work, I see the old man sit on the bench, suddenly I am thinking one of the quotes from student guide.
The quote state that serve your uncles as if you are serving your parents. So, I come near him and greet him. He is so happy and our conversation lasted more than twenty minutes. This is the wonderful experience and I am going to make it the habit from now on.
He tell me that he is now 80 over years old and living in his son's house. Every day he needs to walk to maintain activeness. He tell me about his life and his family.
After twenty minutes, I tell him that I have to go home. He smilingly telling me to have the good rest. I feel like he talk to me as if I am his son.
My friends, it is so good to talk to the old people, the joy is beyond my imagination. Please try it if you have not done this before.
Yes, this is part of my happy journey in life.