Saturday, July 4, 2009

Change for the better

Although human beings are not perfect but all can change for the better because we can think.
How if a person who has shortcoming/ secret, what should we do?
According to ancient student guide Di Zi Qui, it said as follow:
1. Shortcoming
If a person has a shortcoming, do not expose it.
2. Secret
If a person has a secret, do not tell others.
My view:
My friends, I think we can advise our friends privately so as not to embarrass them.
How to react to those who have done something good/ bad?
The student guide said as follows:
3. Goodness
Praising the goodness of others of others is a good deed in itself.
When people approve of and praise you, you should feel encouraged and try even harder.
4. Wrongdoing
Spreading rumors about the wrongdoing of others, is a wrongdoing in itself.
5. Misfortune
When the harm done has reached the extreme, misfortunes will surely follow.
My view:
We should encourage people when they are down. All can change for the better. For me, I feel happier than ever after I have written these learning stuffs to learn myself and sharing. I believe it should be inner peace.
Thanks for reading, do you have anything to say?
See you on my next post- encouragement, have the nice day.

Friday, July 3, 2009

Positive results

My friends always like to share some motivation words to me. Sometimes, they had problems and asked me. I would do my best to give them advice.
Likewise, if I have some unsolved problems, I also ask them for tips and always have the best solutions.
Yesterday, my friend sent me an email, I found that the email message was meaningful. It is ready good to share it with all of you.
The message just one sentence as follows:
" What you do anything is what you do everything ".
My view:
Through my life experiences, I realise that doing bad deeds will lead to more bad deeds, there is the negative forces propel us to do more negative things and the outcome are negative results.
On the other hand, doing good deeds will lead to more good deeds, there is the positive forces propel us to do more positive things and the outcome are positive results.
So, there is only one choice.
Have the positive life and do not miss it.
This is my little thought for today.

Monday, June 29, 2009

Love all equally

From the report, I learn that one primary school had used the ancient student guide to cultivate students. Instilling good values to young one is the good move, so as students are disciplined and be able to handle all the challenges in the future.
Let's study the ancient student guide Chapter 5 Love all equally
1. Equality
Human beings, regardless of nationality, race, or religion, everyone should be loved equally. We are all sheltered by the same sky and live on the same planet Earth.
2. Respect
A person of high ideals and morals is highly respected. What people value is not based on outside appearance.
A person's outstanding ability will naturally honor him with a good reputation.
Admiration from others does not come from boasting or praising oneself.
3. Capable person
If you are a very capable person, use your abilities for the benefit of others.
Other people's competence should not be slandered.
4. Rich/ Poor
Do not flatter the rich, or despine the poor.
5. Friends
Do not ignore old friends, and take delight in new ones.
Do you have anything to share?

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Appreciation

Let's study the student guide.
1. Criticism
If criticism make us angry and only compliments make us happy, then sincere and understanding, virtuous people will shy away.
We should appreciate it if criticism come.
2. Mistake
If our mistake is not done on purpose, it is only an error.
If it is done on purpose, it is evil.
If we correct our mistake and do not repeat it, we no longer have the mistake.
If we try to cover it up, we will be doubly wrong.
My view:
We are human, bound to make mistake but we should amend it once we realise that it was mistake.
Can you appreciate criticism happily?
Do you correct your mistake quickly or simply ignore it?