Let's study the student guide.
1. Criticism
If criticism make us angry and only compliments make us happy, then sincere and understanding, virtuous people will shy away.
We should appreciate it if criticism come.
2. Mistake
If our mistake is not done on purpose, it is only an error.
If it is done on purpose, it is evil.
If we correct our mistake and do not repeat it, we no longer have the mistake.
If we try to cover it up, we will be doubly wrong.
My view:
We are human, bound to make mistake but we should amend it once we realise that it was mistake.
Can you appreciate criticism happily?
Do you correct your mistake quickly or simply ignore it?
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Appreciation
Posted by coolingstar9 at 5:03 PM
Labels: Appreciation
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13 comments:
sometimes we are tend to think we are perfect and so does our work :)
i do accept critism but im not that happy nor angry as well
through cristsm we learn our mistakes and through that mistake we can right our wrong in the near future if that "criticized thing" arose again
You make a very good point with point #1. Sadly however a lot of people take it personally as opposed to accepting it as a growth opportunity.
You have a very nice blog here. I just started to improve my character and handling criticism was one of my weaknesses. Since I've had children, you have to learn to live with criticism. It makes you so humble.
BTW, To err is human. To LEARN from it is divine! Experience is the best teacher. :)
I love criticism it helps me to learn to change and make things right again. This is great I love what you are working on here!
Love and blessings,
AngelBaby
it was hard at first... I always tend to be defensive which is very unproductive... but I grew up, I think... now, I can handle it better and I'm happy when people give me constructive criticisms and I do the same way too:))
Faisal Admar,
You have the point that sometimes we are tend to think we are perfect and so does our work.
Faisal, honestly speaking each individual surely doing lots of mistakes in reality.
We realise, repent and do it right.
Best wishes to you.
bluedreamer27,
You do accept critism but you're not that happy nor angry as well. That's ready that you are cool.
You treat cristsm as the learning experience, this is the right mindset.
Best wishes to you.
The Mind of a Mom,
You say:" a lot of people take it personally as opposed to accepting criticism as a growth opportunity."
Yes, this is the growth opportunity.
Best wishes to you.
The Mind of a Mom,
You say:" a lot of people take it personally as opposed to accepting criticism as a growth opportunity."
Yes, this is the growth opportunity.
Best wishes to you.
BIBI,
You have the right mindset that you have just started to improve your character.
Handling criticism was one of your weaknesses. Since you've had children, you have to learn to live with criticism. It makes you so humble.
Thanks for the words: BTW, To err is human. To LEARN from it is divine! Experience is the best teacher.
You can do it, best wishes to you.
AngelBaby,
You say:" I love criticism it helps me to learn to change and make things right again. This is great I love what you are working on here!"
AngelBaby, you have the good mindset, willing to change for the better.
Love and blessings,
coolingstar9
Shawie,
Wow, that's great that you can handle cciticism better.
You say it was hard at first... you always tend to be defensive which is very unproductive... but you grew up, you think... now, you can handle it better and you're happy when people give your constructive criticisms and you do the same way too:))
Shawie, thanks for the sharing, well done.
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