How to be happy?

Many people want to be happy in life. How to have happy life? I explore Internet and find the wiki how has some answers for that- Happy life.
Let's study what it say:
Quote: Be optimistic
Firstly it say:"Be optimistic. In the 1970s, researchers followed people who'd won the lottery and found that a year after they'd hit the jackpot, they were no happier than the people who didn't. They called it hedonic adaptation, which suggests that we each have a baseline level of happiness. No matter what happens, good or bad, the effect on our happiness is only temporary and we tend to rebound to our baseline level. Some people have a higher baseline happiness level than others, and that can be attributed in part to genetics, but it's also largely influenced by how you think.  So while the remainder of this article will help boost your happiness, only improving your attitude towards life will increase your happiness permanently. Here are some excellent starting points for doing that:"
My view: To have happy life, we must have the healthy outlook in life. Material gain can not ready give you happy life in the long run if you have wrong mindset.

Having goals in life

In this world, many people are living in goalless life. Everyday they eat, sleep, having intimate relationship with others or want to have fame and money.
They just live on like that. They actually do not know what are the purpose of life. Let's discuss how important having goals in life.
You start first...
Yes, we need to gradually stop our bad habits. In order to enjoy the truly happy and peaceful life, then we have to do it.
If not, we will miss the opportunities to enjoy " the true life, normal life ".

17th Gyalwa Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje the sincere teacher

Recently, my friend told me that the 17th Gyalwa Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje has many good teaching. So, I start to explore more about 17th Gyalwa Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje. Yes, Mr. Karmapa is the very friendly, sincere teacher to tell us human beings how to live in truly happy life.
Today, I like to share some of his talk.17th Gyalwa Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje said that smiling is very important and he find that some people smile out of some motives, that's not good. We all need to smile sincerely. The difference between human beings and other animals is that we can smile but other animals can not.
Mr. 17th Gyalwa Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje said that he wanted to show people the sincerity.
Let's learn more about 17th Gyalwa Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje further in next post. His image is ready good, we all can learn from 17th Gyalwa Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje.
 17th Gyalwa Karmapa, Ogyen Trinley Dorje had taught many people about the purpose of life. Through his teaching, many people have now more peaceful than before.
Mr. Karmapa has the wisdom to answer many life problems like how to have good married life, how to clear hatred, etc.
Mr. Karmapa had gone through intensive spiritual training during his childhood. Mr. Karmapa has the very strong memory power. He knows many languages including Chinese. Mr. Karmapa is well versed in Chinese after just one year of study. Now he can translate Chinese texts on Buddhism into his own language. He can speak mandarin fairly well. I hope all of us can benefit from his teaching.   
We can learn they ways Mr. Karmapa behaves. He told us to act naturally without any pretense. He told us to upgrade our spiritual level. Yes, I am learning from him to make my life more happier.

Google had done the good job

Google had done the very good job because Google had removed few hundred you tube video related to the spreading of terrorism, that was the right move. Google can play the important role in promoting the positive thoughts by gradually remove any video or articles that are spreading the negative acts or evil acts
In view of the global trend towards immorality, Google can do something to slow down the spreading of negative one. I hope one day many people will only like to view healthy web site or video.
Google have to do it now before it is too late and the next generation might be blaming Google not to do that now.
Internet is the useful tools in promoting bad or good. There is the saying: Human being needs only three days to learn bad, it needs three years to learn to be good. For me, I think for some people once they are bad they are forever bad because of the deep influence from internet , media since they are young.
Google had removed the you tube video related to terrorism was the good move and I hope Google will continue to do that to remove all bad elements gradually so that our young one will have the healthy mindset in their life time.

Teresa Hsu the saint

Singapore had lost one extraordinary person Teresa Hsu. I call he the saint. She passed away on 7 December 2011 at age 113.. I am the fan of Teresa Hsu. From her selflessness, we ready can learn something valuable. Out of all the famous people in Singapore, Teresa Hsu can ready inspire people because of her kindness, helpfulness. She was the extremely low profile person, She was not interested on fame. She shown us how to be the normal person. Her nickname is 'Mother Teresa'. Teresa Hsu was the outstanding social worker in Singapore or International.
This supercentenarian was Singapore's oldest person who had the passion to serve those needy, old and sick people.
Teresa Hsu died peacefully at her home on 7 December. She was cremated on the same day. She knew that her final days would come any moment and prepared to leave this world in peaceful manner. Teresa Hsu left instructions not to make any announcement of her death in the news media, or perform any ceremonies that would cause disturbance and inconvenience to others. Teresa was so caring even she was about to leave the world. Unlike other famous people, she had the truly sincere heart helping others. Through her whole life esposode
The notice was signed by her co-worker Sharana Rao."She has further instructed that no claim be made of her ash by whosoever," it added.

Teresa Hsu, a trained nurse, devoted her entire life to helping the less fortunate.

Born in a tiny village in the Guangdong province of China, Hsu traveled to various countries, such as Hong Kong and Paraguay, to help others, before settling down in Singapore.

Here, she served first as an unsalaried matron at Kwong Wai Shiu Hospital for about three years before opening an old folks home, called the "Home for the Aged Sick".

After retirement, she turned her attention to her welfare service, Heart to Heart, where she reached out to needy elderly folks and families.
These few days, local media and newspapers all published the news. Teresa Hsu will be always remembered by all Singaporeans and oversea people.

Healthy life style

Healthy life style is what we all have to adopt. It is so easy to adopt healthy life style if you mindset is right. Your childhood background can affect your later life. Once your mindset was abnormal, it needs very long time to adjust. You can only adjust if you encounter lots of obstacles. I wish all of you can adopt healthy life style, please do not do the following bad things.
Every day we read newspapers, there are always some similar news. We always hear about bad news. Let us see what type of bad news almost we can see daily.
Stealing, corruption, robbing all these are because of greed. Stealing can lead us being charged in the court fined or jailed or even canning. Why these people taking risks in doing all these bad things because they thought that they could be escaped. But some of them were caught immediately or sometimes later. Because of the greedy mindset, they are probably doing other bad things as well.
Molesting or raping or bullying someone, for molesting they were doing these for their lusts. These type of immoral acts will lead them to the prison for a long time because they are posing bigger threat to the society. Their life will be miserable and bring shames to the whole family, how can they take good care of their family?
Killing or bullying cats, dogs or other animals. These type of people have no sympathy and have zero kindness to animals. Can we expect them to be kind to other human beings?
Those who always go to night clubs, bar mostly are not moral people. These people mostly are hooligans, unhealthy mindset.
I hope you are not this type of person. Yes, I want to be the truly good person and a person who has healthy life style.. Can you say this out loudly? clear away all your evil, cruel mindset, clear away your arrogant mindset. Remember we have to leave the world peaceful and lightly. We have to leave this world smilingly.

Abortion

Many people think that they never commit serious crime in their life. But in flat many were committing killing acts like abortion.
50 years ago we hardly heard about abortion, now it is so common that people are dumb already. For those who intend to abort their babies now, I advise them not to do so because you will be the killer and then your whole life will be miserable.
Those aborted baby's spirit will be stick to you and your will be doomed.
Remember killer is always meet with misfortune, why? because he deserved it, that's it. 

Write only positive blog post

From today onwards, I will only write positive blog post, why? Because I do not want to pollute people' mindset. It will cause bad influence to others.
I want to change myself to the better person. Today I go back to my previous blog posts, I slowly amend some posts, I have spent two hours to amend some posts to delete somethings that I think are negative.
Because I do not want to let readers have the negative mindset. I want all readers having all positive mindset only.
By doing this, I know I have to correct all my mistakes. Only that I can project the positive image. I am heading to the total positiveness.
I know this is the very difficult task but I do my best. I will spend sometimes to read through all my previous posts, if I find any negative elements I will not hesitate to delete or amend it because I do not want others heading to the wrong path.
I have to do it now.

Do a good deed daily

In this world, we can see someone who always like to do good deeds everyday. If you do not have this type of habit. I suggest you try it everyday, may be you can do just one good deed every day. After sometimes, you will find doing good deeds are the joyful things in the life.
Why? You make people happy and you surely will be happy also.
Please say yes to " doing a good deed everyday" You have nothing to lose but you will gain more like happiness, relaxation, etc, etc.

When I am old

You are my son and daughter, I need to tell you something, please keep inside your mind. When I am old, I am no longer the strong one, please understand me and show your patience towards me.
When I am old and always pour the soup into my shirt and forget how to tie my shoe, please think of how I use my hand to teach you while you were at the younger age.
When I am old and I always repeat the words again and again, please listen patiently and do not interrupt my talk, remember I always reminded you many times or talked to you continuously until you finally fell into sleep when you are at very young age or when you are baby.
When I am old and need you to bathe for me, please do not scold me. Remember I always bathe for you when you are young.
When I am old and do not know about the new technology and new issues, please do not laugh at me or look down on me. Remember I always answer all your question about " why? " when you are young.
When I am old and unable to walk or can not walk properly due to tired, please extend your strong hand to help me move forward. Remember how I helped you when you were learning how to walk or climb when you are young.
When I am old and forget something during our conversation, please give me sometimes to think or recall back my memory. Actually it is not so important to talk anything and I just need you besides me, I will feel satisfied.
When I am old and going to the final days, you should not feel sad but please understand and support me as if how I treated you when you were in the learning stage.
My dear son or daughter, I had led you towards the brightest path when you are young. Now I am now, please accompany me during my final days. Please give me your love and patience, I will be appreciated and I will smile. The unlimited love given to you in the past can make me smile.
Remember all my friends..........when I am old

Eat properly

People like to eat tasty food, they thought this is the great enjoyment. Yes, our tongues have the ability to taste different type of flavors. Some people never control and keep on eating, the outcome is very bad.
Many sickness appear because of eating. So, eat properly is important if we want to have healthy body. Nowadays, meats have lots of chemicals unlike 40 years ago. Some people prefer eating only meats with no vegetables. This is bad because meats contain lots of poisons. Eating vegetables can neutralize the poisons to some extent.
But the best is to eat only vegetarian foods. We can select different types of vegetarian food so that we can have different nutrients for our body.
I see more and more people eating vegetarian food not because of religious reasons but for health sake. Someone said before: " if all human beings eating only vegetarians food, no wars will occur in this world," The reason is very simple because human beings then totally get rid of cruel element.
So, we all can consider eating vegetarians food.

Better life

In this shortest life, we see so many people were lost in direction, they were chasing materials gain and many illusions. Some pursued all these in illegal ways and suffered in the end.
To have the better and quality life, we can adopt the six ways.
Donation or giving-We need to donate to the needy or those who are poorer and needy one. If we have nothing to give, we can pray for them or even wish them well.
Free from doing bad deeds-like killing, stealing, improper sex, lies, alcohol, etc. By dong all good deeds, we will feel peaceful and luck will follow,
Tolerance with no limit-We need to be tolerant at all times without anger.
Diligence in whatever we do( positive one ), keep cool by meditating. I mean dealing with all in the cool manner. Also, learning wisdom is also very important so that we know what is wrong and right.

Time to love all-the highest form of enjoymentD

Do you want to have highest form of enjoyment? If you want, please read on.....In this world, not many people love all, there are many people love some, am I right? It is ready good to love all. Can you examine why you can not love all? why? Is it because you thought it is ok to love some but not all. Is it ok for you to challenge yourself that you do not follow others. When you hearing " love all ", do you feel uncomfortable. Perhaps you have something in your mind that you can not love all because of some reasons.

Love all--Every time we hear people say " love all ". From my understanding, this is the highest form of enjoyment. Because of " love all " we can attain the true peace not partial peace. We love all animals equally, we love cats as well as dogs, we love poisonous snake as well. Remember if we hate one animal or more, we are mot people of " love all." In order to ready " love all " practically , we need to stop eating them. We must not say " love all " on one hand but kill them on other hand. Although I now never kill animals but I still eat dead one. I am going to stop eating dead one as well. Because I know I still can survive even I never eat animals. The ultimate reason is because I want to ready taste the highest form of enjoyment- I do not want other animals blood in my body, I do not want to injure them any more. For me, I know I can do it. I never force anybody to do that, it is entirely my will and I know I am doing the good thing and I can ready live in total fearless state.

Hu Bin was expelled from the 13 schools-part one

"I was expelled from the 13 schools" this was the topic that Mr. Hu Bin wanted to share with us. Hu Bin was sharing his painful experiences, Let's see what he said:
" Many said that I had the personality, capability.. I am Hu Bin, from Lanzhou City, Gansu Province, 22 years old, I was expelled from school by 13 schools. During my school days, I was not listening to my parents. I like to fight and bullying including teachers. But now I had changed and now a full-time volunteers. As the full time volunteers, I have no income. My duty is to promote the "student guide" and to promote traditional culture/values. I have been in this wonderful job a year. My mom and dad very happy after seeing my significant change. We all need to learn the rules-di zi qu so that we can have the a correct outlook on life and values. In the past, I learned that the Western concept of equality, and the importance of freedom. At that time, I did not know how to respect parents, I called my mom and dad their names. After learning the rules, now I know I have to call them mom and dad not xiao Hu or xinghu At that time I felt very fashionable. Now I know I was wrong, I am now calling my mom and dad with my heart sincerely.
I bullied the teacher, class booing/protesting, the teacher scolded me and I did not bother at all. The teacher said to me,"Hu Bin, you sit in the last row, do not influence the other classmates, you can sleep there, I have no other demand."
But I still could not follow this simple instruction, how bad I was.At that time teachers saw my mother with tears very often. I also believed that it was good to show off. During the examination, I never wrote any word on examination papers and not handed over the exam papers to teachers. The teacher was helpless and told me to write something and I just simply took out the text book and copied down on the examination papers. My mindset then was quite abnormal and I thought all these showing that I was a man of personality. Yes, I followed Western values ​​that I would do somethings that others dare not to do. I thought this was personality. Hu Bin advised people to learn the traditional values and know to live as the human beings,

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Blogger is now under the web site giant google. Blogger is the free blog site. It is so easy to use just look at the above description by blogger.
Why so many blogger using Blogger because of lots of features. You can use blogger to write anythings you like. For me, I am happy using blogger so far. I can write anythings I like. I write my thoughts on almost anythings. From here, I have experienced what are freedom of thoughts and expression. After blogging, I interact with other blogger, readers. I had received so many comments in the past but recently I just simply write blogs because of the time constraint and other activities.
Why blogger can be the free site for so long? I think this is the win win situation. Now Google AdSense advertisements can be seen on blogger web site. It provide the need for readers to have the opportunities to visit relevant advertisement or business news.
But if your visitors suddenly become many, it is time for you to register the new domain but directed to your current blogger site, just like Singapore blogger xiaxue.
Do you like to use blogger? what you want to see the new development on blogger, you are welcome to give your feedback to blogger.
See you, I am just simply to write anything on blogger but keep in mind do not write somethings that can lead the authority to monitor you because of your hurting remarks. They can easily catch us, then we can not write anymore, be alert, my blogger, do not become the hero.
Blogger site constantly improve its feature. Blogger will do the best to make it friendly and easy usage. One of the contribution that blogger gives is to provide the platform for teachers and students to interact. As you know that writing blog post on blogger is very simple and the post can be instantly been published on Internet. Everybody can give comments and blogger can filter the scam comments. You can upload photos on blogger easily and share it with other students. Even you can share your home work, lecture notes on blogger. For someone who want to be in private sharing, yes they can do it also. All these we have to thank blogger, am I right?
It means schools can provide school updated news on blogger, all these can promote the friendly relationship amongst teachers, students as well as parents and all educators.Through all these, students can communicate with their ideas and others can give their ideas, the free flow of information can be ready established through blogger platform.
It is good to familiar all features on blogger, so that we blogger can ready enjoy it fully.
If you want to become famous blogger, then you have to know how to blog. You can type blogger on google search. For me, I use blogger just to spread the positive elements, the motive is not to be famous but to give some thoughts for readers' reference.
Who know one day my blogger site will be appeared on blogger first page? If you are the new blogger, you can see the link below, there are many tips on how to write good blogs. see his blogger .

Hell

In this world, some people believe there is hells, some wouldn't believe or think this is superstitious.
Let's see who are people who believe there is hells. Yes, religious people believe it. Islam, Christianity, Buddhism, Hindu and many religions all had mentioned the existence of hells. So, I can conclude that those religious or spiritual people are believing it. What is the benefit that those who believe it? The obvious benefits are having peaceful life because they wouldn't commit acts that can lead them to hells after death.
How about those wouldn't believe the existence of hell? There are basically two type of people, one type of people will still doing all kinds of good deeds even they never believe it. The other type of people, I call it dumb one will do all kinds of bad deeds like killing others because of greed, hatred, etc.
The pitiful one are the dumb one. I hope you are not the dumb one. For me, hells are the places for very bad people. This is the truth whether you believe or not. If you don't believe, it does not matter as long as you do not commit the bad acts.....
If you never believe it but still doing all kinds of good deeds. You are good at least you never do something to hurt people or other beings.

Time to change

Our life are just like the full cup of water when we are born. Take a look on your cup, how much water left, you will surprisingly realize that you have used up quite a lot.
Do you think you need to change for the better? or you think that just leave it......
In this world, many people never realize the need to be the good person. They even do not understand what is good person.
Actually the good person is the person who never hurt anybody, just simply like that. He not hurt others and never hurt himself also.
Do you think you have to change for the better? or Do you feel annoyed when you seeing this post? If you feel annoyed, then you should know you have to change for the better.....