Sunday, June 28, 2009

Appreciation

Let's study the student guide.
1. Criticism
If criticism make us angry and only compliments make us happy, then sincere and understanding, virtuous people will shy away.
We should appreciate it if criticism come.
2. Mistake
If our mistake is not done on purpose, it is only an error.
If it is done on purpose, it is evil.
If we correct our mistake and do not repeat it, we no longer have the mistake.
If we try to cover it up, we will be doubly wrong.
My view:
We are human, bound to make mistake but we should amend it once we realise that it was mistake.
Can you appreciate criticism happily?
Do you correct your mistake quickly or simply ignore it?

14 comments:

Faisal Admar said...

sometimes we are tend to think we are perfect and so does our work :)

bluedreamer27 said...

i do accept critism but im not that happy nor angry as well
through cristsm we learn our mistakes and through that mistake we can right our wrong in the near future if that "criticized thing" arose again

bluedreamer27 said...

If there would be one song that remind you of Michael Jackson ...what would it be and why? Its time to break the boundaries ... share your thoughts and let your voice be heard. http://breaking-the-boundaries.blogspot.com/2009/06/lossing-icon.html

The Mind of a Mom said...

You make a very good point with point #1. Sadly however a lot of people take it personally as opposed to accepting it as a growth opportunity.

BIBI said...

You have a very nice blog here. I just started to improve my character and handling criticism was one of my weaknesses. Since I've had children, you have to learn to live with criticism. It makes you so humble.

BTW, To err is human. To LEARN from it is divine! Experience is the best teacher. :)

AngelBaby said...

I love criticism it helps me to learn to change and make things right again. This is great I love what you are working on here!

Love and blessings,
AngelBaby

Shawie said...

it was hard at first... I always tend to be defensive which is very unproductive... but I grew up, I think... now, I can handle it better and I'm happy when people give me constructive criticisms and I do the same way too:))

coolingstar9 said...

Faisal Admar,
You have the point that sometimes we are tend to think we are perfect and so does our work.
Faisal, honestly speaking each individual surely doing lots of mistakes in reality.
We realise, repent and do it right.
Best wishes to you.

coolingstar9 said...

bluedreamer27,
You do accept critism but you're not that happy nor angry as well. That's ready that you are cool.
You treat cristsm as the learning experience, this is the right mindset.
Best wishes to you.

coolingstar9 said...

The Mind of a Mom,
You say:" a lot of people take it personally as opposed to accepting criticism as a growth opportunity."
Yes, this is the growth opportunity.
Best wishes to you.

coolingstar9 said...

The Mind of a Mom,
You say:" a lot of people take it personally as opposed to accepting criticism as a growth opportunity."
Yes, this is the growth opportunity.
Best wishes to you.

coolingstar9 said...

BIBI,
You have the right mindset that you have just started to improve your character.
Handling criticism was one of your weaknesses. Since you've had children, you have to learn to live with criticism. It makes you so humble.
Thanks for the words: BTW, To err is human. To LEARN from it is divine! Experience is the best teacher.
You can do it, best wishes to you.

coolingstar9 said...

AngelBaby,
You say:" I love criticism it helps me to learn to change and make things right again. This is great I love what you are working on here!"
AngelBaby, you have the good mindset, willing to change for the better.
Love and blessings,
coolingstar9

coolingstar9 said...

Shawie,
Wow, that's great that you can handle cciticism better.
You say it was hard at first... you always tend to be defensive which is very unproductive... but you grew up, you think... now, you can handle it better and you're happy when people give your constructive criticisms and you do the same way too:))
Shawie, thanks for the sharing, well done.