Looking forward

We need to always looking forward, do not let the past hinder your progress. From to day onwards, we start to adjust ourselves.
Always having positive mindset.

New year eve 2012

On 31st 2011, the new year eve, I went to attend my colleague (Saro) 's son Vicky 21st birthday celebration at Fort Canning Park.
Out of six colleagues, only I and the other colleague free to attend Vicky birthday blast. I intended to attend the birthday party to have more exposure and strengthening the relationship with others. I reached at the destination at 1930 hrs.
My colleague Saro saw me and said that she was extremely happy to see me here to attend his son's birthday blast. She told me that there would be magical show, dancing and singing programmes. I was enjoying all these.
At about 2300hrs, I left the site and went to nearby orchard road. I saw so many people there waiting for the count down.

Treat others well

If we are in service line, we are told to treat customer well. We always hear " customer is always right".
But we do that because we want to gain profits from the customers. How about adopting the same attitude even if we are not in service line?
I think this is good attitude towards others not just the customers. Let me share with you the story.
Madam Tan is the lecturer on psychology in the university. She said her husband always shout louder to her but she talk to him in the soft mode.
Asking her can she change his husband 's attitude. She said that she was unable to change him. She said a person can be changed unless he want to change himself.

How to go to the pure land after leaving this world?

How to go to the pure land after leaving this world?For those who want to go pure land-Western blissful world after leaving this world. Beside always reciting Namoamituofo, they must have the following ten mindset.
1. They must be totally compassionate towards all human beings and sentient beings, do not hurt and injure them and always make them feeling happy.
2. They must be in serenity both body and mind. They must feel pitiful for people and do their best to clear away their worries.3.
3. They must not give up and must able to protect the good teachings from the awaken one even losing their life.
4. They must be able to free from all attachment, using wisdom to observe all situation without any attachment.
5. They must have the clean heart, do not be involved in the worldly matters like profits,etc. They must be contented and have the clean heart.
6. They must not forget the purpose of going to the pure land. They must be persistent and willing to go to the pure land to learn advanced wisdom there.
7. They must have the mindset of total equality, respect others without any arrogance.
8. They must have the decisive mindset, do not engaged in gossipping and have the strong belief and do not lose the direction.
9. They must do all good deeds according to the Buddha's teaching. They must not have evil mind at all.
10. They observe the wonder of amituofo without any attachment.
Remember all must be stay awake in order to go to the pure land.