Sunday, April 5, 2009

Gratitude

Part 6:
When your parents are ill, taste the medicine first [ Refer to herbal medicine, herbs are boiled with water, a child should taste it first to make sure it is not too hot or too bitter ] before giving it to them.
Take care of them night and day; do not leave their bedside.
During the first three years of mourning after they passed away, remember them with gratitude and feel sad often for not being able to repay them for their kindness in raising you.
During this period you should arrange your home to reflect your grief and sorrow, avoid festivities and indulgence in food and alcoholic drinks.
Observe the proper etiquette in arranging their funerals, hold the memorial ceremony and commemorate their anniversaries with your utmost sincerity.
Serve your departed parents as if they were alive.
My view:
Take good care of parents when they are ill. To show your gratitude, proper funeral to be made after they passed away. We need to behave well even parents no longer around.
--Chapter 1 Student guide ended--

10 comments:

AngelBaby said...

I just finished reading all of these and they are very interesting. How we treat our parents teaches our children how to treat us when we are older so we need to be a good example for our children.

Love and Blessings,
AngelBaby

nisha said...

Hii coolingstar.. thanks for coming over to my blog and please post the award i gave you:-).. thanks in advance buddy..

How well you have written how parents should be taken care of and shown our gratitude.. its always kids who are demanding but forget that parents need their kids too :-)

coolingstar9 said...

AngelBaby.
Wow, you just finished reading all of these student guide.
You find it very interesting, like:
1. How we treat our parents?
2. Teache our children how to treat us when we are older.
3. We need to be a good example for our children.
AngelBaby,it is good to know all these so that relationship with parents will be better.
This student guide not only suitable for students, children, also benefit adults.
Happy everyday to you.

bluedreamer27 said...

i certainly agree
we are what we are now because of our parents
thanks for sharing coolingstar

AngelBaby said...

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Love and Blessings,
AngelBaby

coolingstar9 said...

nisha,
Thank you very much for giving me the loving award, I will post it on my blog site. Appreciate for the great love given to me.
Love and care should be nurtured at home.
You aware that parents should be taken care of and shown our gratitude.
Yes, its always kids who are demanding but forget that parents need their kids too. It is time to strength the good values now.
Happy life, nisha

coolingstar9 said...

bluedreamer27,
I am glad that you are fully understand and appreciate the love and care from our respected parents.
You say:" i certainly agree that we are what we are now because of our parents."
Thanks for sharing Bluedreamer27

coolingstar9 said...

AngelBaby,
Appreciate for always stopping by on my blog site.
Thank you for always leaving valuable idea, advice. It enrichs my and readers' knowledge.
Wow, there is something for me on your site. I will visit it, thanks.

Love and Blessings,
coolingstar9

bluedreamer27 said...

hello coolingstar
i just came here to give you the 100 ec as a prize for being one of my top commenters
thanks

coolingstar9 said...

bluedreamer27,
Surprisingly, I am one of your commentators.
Wow, 100 ec as a prize. I have to go Ec site to have a look.
Thank you very much, happy blogging, see you soon.