Showing posts with label Love parents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love parents. Show all posts

Friday, April 2, 2010

Great shame of all

Since we were born, our parents have taken care us unconditionally. If our parents never took care of us, we surely die. Just for this one particular reason , we can say that it is the great shame not to reply their kindness. We can not take it lightly because if we can not do that, we ready not human and we are worse than beast.
Filial to parents is what every son/daughter " must do ", there is no bargain or excuses on that for whatever reasons.
Please establish the right mindset-sincerely and unconditionally love your parents. This is not just giving some money to our parents but giving them warmth. For examples, spend times to talk to them, washing their legs, etc, etc. you should know what are their like, you should full fill their wishes. The point is to make our parents smile. Making them smiling always is what we must do.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Sincere love

On my last post: harmony, Faisal Admar said that he didn't have much problem with his siblings. they respect each other and love each other so much since they were kids.
Glad to know that Faisal Admar don't have much problem with his siblings since kids.
Faisal ask : 1.Do you think marriage is for making kids and hope that they will take care of you when you are old? do you really believe in that?
My thinking:
Traditionally, marriage is for making kids and kids need to take care. However this type of concept has been changed and now we have to prepare ourselves for the old age.
2. Faisal has made some survey and ask: Do you know that most of the kids nowadays live far away from their parent? end up parent still alone.
My thinking:
Yes, the trend is that kids live far away.I hope kids can stay near parents or stay together.

Friday, April 3, 2009

Give joy to parents

Dear readers, Let us study the student guide.
Chapter 1: At home, be dutiful to your parents.
Part 4:
If whatever pleases your parents is fair and reasonable, try your best to get it for them.
Should something displease your parents, if within reason, cautiously keep it away from them.
When your body is hurt, your parents will be worried.
If your virtues are compromised, your parents will feel ashamed.
When you have loving parents, it is not difficult to be a dutiful child.
But if you are still dutiful to parents who hate you, only then will it meet the standards of the saints and sages for being a dutiful child.
My view:
Do things to give joy to parents. Be a dutiful even parents scold us.