Sunday, November 22, 2009

True happiness

Everybody like to have happy life, am I right? We must be able to create peaceful environment at home.
Firstly, respecting and caring our parents is the key point to true happiness. It is because parents and their kids have the very close relationship. We need to appreciate the love given by our parents. Without that feeling towards parents, how can we truly love our brothers, sisters, friends or our country.
If we can love our parents, then we can further learning how to love our brothers, sisters. After that, we then be able to extend the love to friends, nation and the whole world.
So, true happiness can only be established if you can care your parents, this is the starting point. Let's together to have the happy family. Every individual can do that, the whole society will become healthy.
This is the important element-love your parents first.
Have the nice journey, my friends. I will share with you some story about this issue on my next post.


Lana Gramlich said...

I'm sorry to say, but your post involves some wishful thinking. Some kids are hated, abused & even killed by their parents. In a perfect world, loving parents might make a difference. Unfortunately we don't live in a perfect world.

coolingstar9 said...

Lana Gramlich,
This is not the perfect world. We have to find the good solution to the problems. There are cases that parents never full fill their duties as the responsible parents. That's why education is very important especially in this century. Many people lost the direction and do not know how to live happily. That;s why I take the initiative to bring out some issue, hope that more people can have the healthy mindset. This post is to highlight one element, there are many elements that I like to discuss including cases of parents abusing their children.
Thanks for your contribution and best wishes to you.

ladyviral said...

i believe what sould be rightfully said.. we should love ourselves first.

nothingprofound said...

On this issue, there's a great cultural divide which separates the East from the West. In the West, especially the US, even in the best circumstances, love and respect for parents have been replaced by a call to rebel and assert oneself in the face of parental control. The emphasis is on individuality and not the family. So even the most loving, devoted parents must face the teenager's inevitable alienation and wrath. I think it's a sad situation and a miserable waste of time but that's how it is.

coolingstar9 said...

Yes, it is important to love ourselves first, this is also part of the elements towards true happiness.
Love ourselves in such a way that we take good care of ourselves like how to have the healthy life style, have the health mindset and enhance our wisdom so that we can solve many problem in life.
We need to learn how to build up the good relationship with parents, siblings, others, etc.

Daisy Soap Girl said...

It's not really a lost cause. There are a lot of cases of rebellion but all in all I think most teens outgrow those years of rebellion. I was one of those teens but when I saw myself headed in the wrong direction I changed. It really starts with teaching them right from wrong and having a stable, loving relationship from the start.

coolingstar9 said...

Yes, the parents must ready know how to teach their kids well.
It is sad to know that some parents ready do not know how to teach their kids.
If the parents never teach the kids properly, how to expect the kids to be good people in future? That's why education on that is critical now.
Have the nice day.