Thursday, August 27, 2009

Why eye contact between two strangers sometimes can lead to conflict?

Why eye contact between two strangers sometimes can lead to conflict?What are the causes?
Let see the example as follows:
Mr. A stares at Mr. B in the corridor, both are strangers to each others. Mr. B stares back and say:" Wei, why you stare at me?"
Mr. A say:" I'm not starring you, I see the tree besides you. Why? you not happy, isn't it? want to fight?"
Mr. B:" ---- you, you think I scare of you, come over here."
Then two person start fighting, attacking each others.
You see, a simple act can lead to tragedy sometimes.
Do you know why eye contact between two strangers can lead to conflict?
The conversation has shown:
They both like to win but in wrong path. They are too easily agitated by sights and words.
It is good to stay cool and not easily agitated by sights and words. It ready need " training " for them.
I want to say more but my eyes start to close, see you few days later.

16 comments:

ladyviral said...

Some can lead to love too o_o;

Geez looking nia... staring nia... Sir your zip unzip.. and run maybe? hahhaa

KB said...

an interesting story thank you. I will take note pof what you are implying. Moving my irrational thoughts from a non conflicting situation will make life easy for me to move on.

lina@happy family said...

Yes, you're right. Sometimes eyes contact between strangers can lead to a conflict. It happen to men who have a hunch that starring his eyes means humiliating.
If I make eyes contact with one stranger; I'll give him/her smile...he3x
-thanks for your meaningful comments!

AL said...

Hey...that was a funny story but an interesting one. Being stared by someone who is a complete stranger is intimidating but sometimes flattering, we wouldn't know if the stranger is attracted to someone. hahaha.
Thanks for the visit btw.

AL

Daisy Soap Girl said...

Isn't that a ridiculous situation? What one should do when making eye contact is smile, say hello and continue minding your business. That way one is not so easily offended.

foongpc said...

Eye contact leads to conflict? I guess that's possible but if we smile I think it might lead to love! Haha!

But seriously, if we look at each other in the eyes and bend our head slightly, the other party can fall in love with us! This is not a joke! : )

coolingstar9 said...

ladyviral,
It is true that eye contact can lead to love.
If we see someone that we feel " dislike " or want to use violence, then we should examine oueselves.
Have the nice day.

Beth said...

Funny Cause in Belize people stare at each other all the time. Not the bus though because they are full of people and the proximity can be embrassing...

coolingstar9 said...

KB,
It is good to remove irrational thoughts from a non conflicting situation. Surely it will make life easy for us to move on.
We need to learn the following:
1. Do not feel offended if someone stare at us.
2. Do not continue stareing at someone who feel uneasy.
Thanks for the comment, have the nice day.

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coolingstar9 said...

lina@happy family,
You mention that it happen to men who have a hunch that starring his eyes means humiliating.
Wow, We ought to behave properly such as using eye and body in proper manner.
If you make eyes contact with one stranger; You'll give him/her smile...he3x. That's good for each others.
Thanks for your tips, have the great day.

Pink Links said...

It is good to stay cool. Some people just want to test you.

Have a nice time!

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Anonymous said...

Exclusive delirium, in my opinion

Anonymous said...

All or nothing.