Monday, June 22, 2009

life is precious

On March 2, the 21-year-old university student David knifed his final year project supervisor Associate professor Mr. Chan in his back and jumped down from level four in the university. David was dead and Mr. Chan was injured.
Why this young and highly educated man wanted to end his life so hurriedly?
The inquiry is still on.
The text document titled " Last words " was found on David's laptop. The investigator could not ascertain the identity of the author.
Could the text document was written by David? Nobody knows the answer at this moment.
I find it the notes were extremely negative.
Let's take the look on some of the notes on his laptop.
" Life in university is much more difficult and complicated than imagined."
"...It seems that my mental is not strong enough to continue,"
" Yes, I am committing suicide, and I have my own reasons. First of all, I just have had it with my miserable life...Right now, I just don't have any more will to live."
" Do you know how it feels to watch your own family shouting at each other almost every day when you still a child? Maybe my unstable emotion is formed because of that."
" I never shed tears anymore to pitiful situation or event..."
" What have I done in my life? Basically nothing but repetition."
Note:Some web page history found on the laptop.
" How to get away with murder"
" Common methods of suicide"
This tragedy and the notes set us thinking.
Is it family problems lead to the incident?
No proper guidance starts from young age?


Faisal Admar said...

it takes emotion management to deal with suicidal thought. otherwise, sometimes simple causes can lead you to suicide too.

i once think about it when i was so depress. i felt cold. i couldn't think about anything.

live a happy life, smile always.

coolingstar9 said...

Faisal Admar,
Thanks for your valuable contribution.
In life, we can not expect everything are smoothing run.
The unhappy childhood experiences can lead to future misfortune if one is unable to handle properly.
What you say " emotion management" is ready important so as to get rid of suicidal thought.
If one faces the problems in life, then he should talk to someone or specialists, they can find out the causes of depression. All parties concerned can work together to solve the problems.
Be always positive in life despite heavy blow.
Smile need less muscle.
Please say " Life is precious" one thousand time.
Yes, we can.

Lynn said...

life is truly precious. there may be trials but that's part of it.

how are u cooling star? glad to hear from u again. have a nice weekend to. (",)

coolingstar9 said...

What you say is absolutely right. life is truly precious. there may be trials but that's part of it.
I am fine and warmly welcome you.
Have a nice weekend too.

foongpc said...

I don't believe in committing suicide to solve our problems. Because dying may not be the end our problems. Who knows we may have to relive it all over again as we have not solved the problem in the first place?

coolingstar9 said...

Life is full of joy and sadness.
Facing the problems, we face it and find the better ways to solve it, this is called life.
Increasing our abilities so as we can handle more difficult things.
Yes, commiting suicide can not solve the problems and bring problems to others like parents, friends.
Thanks for your valuable comment, have the nice day.

footiam said...

Education in university does not amount anything, does it?

coolingstar9 said...

All parties can work out the ways to help those students with emotional problems.
Thanks for your visit and have the great day.